sweet_russian
sweet_russian
Orillia, Ontario, Canada
Jan 2010
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what is so wrong with guys like me?

hey all
just a question to put out there to everyone

Why is it the nice guys always finish last or not at all?

I mean honestly lets break this down
I am a very nice guy who makes money doing what he loves
covers his own bills has 3 children of his own
with the same woman (that should be points for me)
and rents an apartment
and does not do drugs
I like to take things slow
seems like all plusses in my book

I mean I know I can be a little pig headed at times but who isn't right?

I know that woman like the bad boy but what about those of us that can be the bad boy but have a heart of gold?
I have never in my life been judgemental on anyones looks or status in life. why judge people on the past?

With that said and done on the same lines
I have been single now going on 3 & a half years of my choice for 2 of those years to get over my ex (hell ten years is a long time to be with someone) and now i find the dating world has been fliped upside down
Oh well I can't wait to see what people say to this

and if not happy hunting I hope you find what your looking for in life eather on this site or not

Cheers
Sweet_russian
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Kasih
Kasih●Jakarta, Indonesia
Jan 11, 2010●102 Blogs●1,482 Comments
#1
I am sorry if you find that good guys finish last but its not always like that. Yes, we women sometimes falls for the badguys, but for some of us it just a matter of time before we realize that we are likking the wrong man. Maybe its just not ur turn yet for love? The game of datting has not much changed,its still the same old game, just the players that changed.
Good luck sweet russian!
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lovely4u7da
lovely4u7da●chicago, Illinois USA
Jan 11, 2010●11 Blogs●194 Comments
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Sweet russian you are only 28yd you have so much to look forward to oh to be 28 again being along was the last thing on my mind at that age what are you doing to put your self out there you gave your self time to get over your ex and that was a smart thing to do so you wont be someones rebound guy so now you got to be patient she is out there and you got to get out go to the laundromat even if you have a laundry in your apt.building go to the library go to the grocery store at night when the singles people shop at that time the dating world has not changed that much just the standards of people dont change to be someone you are not to have someone that may hurt you in the long run it is not worth it bouquet
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fizzy
fizzy●Perth, Western Australia Australia
Jan 12, 2010●5 Comments
#3
I don't understand why so many girls like bad boy types. Bad boys have never appealed to me.

I've only ever liked good guys, and I doubt I'm the only one who does, so maybe you're just looking for girls in the wrong places?
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maryjane86
maryjane86●Lincoln, Nebraska USA
Jan 12, 2010●3 Comments
#4
Maybe you are just looking for the wrong type of woman! Why don't you try dating a woman who has a child (or children) of her own also? Some women w/out kids may feel overwhelmed by yours!! Since I've had a son, I've realized that some men are comfortable being around children, and some are not. I don't look for "hot" guys anymore, I look for a partner. Can't always get the super hotties man, sometimes you gotta go for the girl next door! lol.
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Malti
Malti●Mosta, Majjistral Malta
Jan 13, 2010●2 Comments
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I feel you mate...

same thing here, and its not worth it, I'm giving up. yeah sure go out and have fun, but thats where it ends. I've had enough.
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Michael211_2000
Michael211_2000●Houston, Texas USA
Jan 13, 2010●4 Blogs●32 Comments
#6
Single mom's are often found complaining on here that single men "run" when they hear she has kids... since you too have children from a previous relationship, I'd think you'd have no problems getting to know all the single mom's that are on CS? confused

Anyhows, don't feel too alone in this... I'm a college degreed pretty good guy (who rescues and raises orphaned baby wildlife each spring; how bad can I be?), NO children from previous relationships, own my home on a few acres, 2 vehicles and a boat, hottub/spa that seats 5 on the backporch (very relaxing on a cold winter night!), non-smoker not into drinking or gambling, fit, employed, and haven't had a date in over 5 years now. dunno

Last 2 years I've been on CS and determined it's a dead end as far as finding women to date goes. mumbling

I've done all that I can do here. I ran out of good ideas a long time ago. frustrated

- Michael
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winelight38
winelight38●indianapolis, Indiana USA
Jan 13, 2010●5 Blogs●6 Comments
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I know what you mean man..! Its the times..seems like A lot of women are Hell-bent on fallin for the guys that are on there way to the penitentary,the way I see it....You know the bad boy thing.... whats sad is he leaves her with A house full of kids for about 12 years..Deep..!
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sweet_russian
sweet_russianOP●Orillia, Ontario Canada
Jan 15, 2010●3 Comments
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thanks everyone for ur input
applause head banger
rock on
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I think that I am a great guy. looking for friends first and then see where it goes from there. I will not lie when I tell you that I am not like the average "guy" out there, I am the most respectful, sweetest, most comical man you can meet. I am jus [read more]

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