What is with guys who are 60 plus and older, they have kids but not sure if they want more kids.
Seriously people, there is an end for women to produce trophy babies for some old fart! Its called "geriatric pregnancy". If you start a pregnancy for a woman at 60 please do the math. I find it a bit ridiculous.The question on the profile is Want kids? most of answers are" not sure", really at 60 years you don't know if you want kids? what planet have you guys been visiting? Just because technology allows people to play God, is this a mentally health issue? ego? .
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I've seen the same box checked by a few similarly aged women & wondered the same thing ...
It Doesn't Make Sense!!
But it Does ... If it's taken to mean the person checking said box would consider meeting someone who has kids living with them & would bring the kids into the equation.
I've not checked said box.
For me, meeting a woman with dependent kids living with her may not be an automatic deal-killer, but Very nearly so.
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We all have preferences. What if the woman or guy should find themselves with some one that still has kids?
"Doesn't want's more but will accept yours", is an option. Maybe it's over looked.
Maybe you have point rose. Maybe some are still wanting to reproduce if the woman is capable. Or adopt.
Just some other thoughts maybe.
Never mind the pic mention.
I confused the name with CELTIC-rose.
Maybe if one of you went with something less similar, fr'instance ...
YellowRose_ofTexas
Just sayin'
I don't look good in green ....
i got yizzer back
If you catch the Witchy Rose fixin' to hex me, whack her with the shovel
sure we're all Irish at the end of the day (even you via association - your son in law
C'mon Chance! You know ... THE WITCH!!
When she goes to turn me into a toad -- You smack her with the shovel!!
THIS AIN'T DIFFICULT! ...
And THIS guy claims to Have My Back?!
I am so f'd ...
This time tomorrow I'll be eatin' bugs ...
I've seen many seniors with new borns.
They like it because the have one person to hold their attention all day.
Any man who says he wants his own is looking for a young fertile woman probably half his age.
I didn't want to get pregnant and give birth myself, it was hard enough co-parenting my granddaughter. My daughter and I were working opposite shifts and operating a revolving door in terms of childcare as families with two parents often do.
When it came to the checkbox "Wants kids", however tired I was, however much I wished for a decent night's sleep, or an evening off, I couldn't bring myself to check a box that I felt implied I didn't want the ones I had. Maybe it was guilt about secret fantasies of an uninterrupted granny nap.
I don't suppose the above scenario ever crossed your mind, peculiar as it is. Perhaps everybody has their own peculiar reasons for completing their profiles in their own peculiar way.
There is also the issue of minimising boundaries to connecting with people. If a profile is too specific in terms of a desired match it excludes all, but a few possibilities. Saying you want to meet someone aged 30 excludes more people than aged 25-35.
Stating age requirements between 18-99 doesn't necessarily mean a person is looking for someone aged 18, or 99, it just indicates they don't want to exclude possibility. Say they specify age 25-35 and someone delightful aged 37 excludes themselves based on the information presented?
Someone saying they're not sure if they want more kids is a way of being inclusive to all possibilities. It may say, "I'm not going to make a judgement without knowing the circumstances".
It's healthy and emotionally mature to not make judgements without knowing the circumstances.
If they want to qualify it, they can write something on their profile. Something like 'At the moment I am not looking to have my own children, but wouldn't totally exclude it if it were important to the right partner'
They are also free to change their choices at any stage.
It's another thing to create a blog making judgements about a group of people based upon logical fallacy, supposition, or stereotyping.
The former is a free will decision, likely based upon a number of factors; the latter is discrimination based upon one.
Phrase The Question Less Ambiguously ...
Do You Wish To Breed/Be Bred?
O Yes
O No
O Maybe
This is pretty straightforward ...
I wanna get someone pregnant/get pregnant.
O Yes
O No
O We'll cross that bridge if we come to it.
seems you're getting your knickers in a twist here over nothing.... whats up my little luv, can't you handle more then one Rose at a time
Note to self .....
Never promise Lee a Rose garden
As for coming after you with a shovel
Good lord what do you take me for, a straw chewing hilly billy
From one to another, welcome to the blogs Rose
As for what's with such men
perhaps they can never have enough of a good thing
She's Cool
BTW --
Great pics
I Won't be eatin' bugs ...