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May 2020
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Intimacy, folks, intimacy.

Quite a range of discussions under this heading. But I'll share one. A friend of mine, certainly not ME, wondered-what to do, when you have met the one, but you haven't experienced anything carnal, since your last squeeze? And it may have been quite a while, of course, again for my friend, not me. She, not me, feels that the stars are auspicious for a new lover traipsing into her, not mine, life. I told her to be honest and very frank, both with revelations and questions. After all, we are all adults, and should know all about those gnarly birds and bees. And about the changes the occur as the years go by. Just wondering. For her, and not for me. Finally, as always here, I bet the emphases will be different for the girls and boys.
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Urbanvixen
Urbanvixen●South County Dublin, Dublin Ireland
May 15, 2020●234 Comments
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PS My last Squeeze last a long time and that was because we told no lies were painfully honest, but most of all we both had a sense of humour and could laugh at each other. Without that all is doomed. :purple_ shimmy
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Urbanvixen
Urbanvixen●South County Dublin, Dublin Ireland
May 15, 2020●234 Comments
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* My last squeeze lasted a long time. Vierk it's part of getting older. Rheumatoid hands. laugh Not always strong enough to print the keys you've tapped.
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Urbanvixen
Urbanvixen●South County Dublin, Dublin Ireland
May 15, 2020●234 Comments
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CelticRose ~ I thought you knew me well enough to know I was making a joke of it. It was a joke from you and I continued the joke.
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VierkaesehochOP●Ocean Coast, Maine USA
May 15, 2020●682 Blogs●1,602 Comments
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So, all, as the blog evolves, we now are hitting pay dirt on the topic at hand. I'll hold my tongue for now on the physical changes that require open discussion in forming a committed relationship, as the years go by. But it's a valid area of exploration. There's plenty to focus on of an interpersonal/non-physiological nature. Secrets of our past--individual, or in our family lines. Also, accomplishments to be happy about. Lots more, but I'll bet that the best approach in forming a relationship is to be open---both in terms of our revelations to the other, and in our assessment of what others reveal. Sure, there are things that are non-negotiable in vetting others, but it's always about balance, and judgment, and trust, and hope/good will. Never forget to have fun along the path. Nighty night.
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EXRED
EXRED●Northumberland, England UK
May 16, 2020●1,466 Comments
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Veirk yep all of the above correct but after that loving feeling (there is a song in there) grin Trust, caring, sharing, for him not me you understand laugh laugh

Stay Safeteddybear
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Urbanvixen
Urbanvixen●South County Dublin, Dublin Ireland
May 16, 2020●234 Comments
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Vierk ~ It's a very interesting blog. I know the lady many years and all is ok.
I do believe that speaking of family secrets or families lines does not always work on ones favour. That's OK if you are breeding dogs or horses laugh son of , sired by....

However telling so much to your partner that it can be thrown back at you is something that I learnt about many years ago.
You leave a bit if 'mystery' there and I believe apart from illnesses and younger people who will be having children together and need to know of any hereditary diseases in family line it is better not to speak too much. Taking somebody as they are and watching what they do as well as what they say is a better form of getting to know a prospective long term partner. Take care vierk thumbs up
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EXRED
EXRED●Northumberland, England UK
May 16, 2020●1,466 Comments
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vierk you are a funny man vetting people wow wow that is a no brainer to start any friendship. laugh laugh
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