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Fukcitt. AKA 'sooner or latter'.

I always hated, is hated strong enough? now I forget what I hated.
Hate, is it strong? If hate is strong, what is strong? Is strong hate?

What if hate is weak? What if there was something weaker? Something so weak the merest mention of it’s reality sends hate to the pisser. Where it squirts all over the floor.

I still cannot remember what I was going to say after the first three words. Fukcitt, it’ll c*m to me sooner or latter.

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Wrinkly bottoms up mate............hug
Jenny, I wouldn't have it any other way, you cheeky girl.
goldengloss
Wrinkey ~ Compassion is stronger, it feels better, not always easy, infact it is darned hard to forgive, not to hate, dislike intensely.
Compassion would cure all the world's ills.
I love you Gg but i would place companionship slightly a-head of compassion. I can feel compassionate about something on another continent only to realise I either do not care enough to get off my backside to do anything about it or, no that's it.

Companionship is flesh on flesh and that can only be felt in person. The problem with that is getting two lazy backsides off the chair long enough to get some flesh on flesh motivation. I do so hope that wasn't too harsh or too rude for you Gg? I do so love our little infrequent interludes. W.
goldengloss
Wrinkly ~ My backside would be willing to move towards some physical contact as it's been a while now. I agree, skin on skin and laughter, fun, things in common but being loved and hugged or just hugged and showing affection is terrific. Alas Wrinkly , Covid has put paid to all of that. Anything I loved in lived has always been either sinful or fattening for me... now it's bloody dangerous !!!hug
Yep, hate is less a sign of weakness, than of our traumas, usually when very young, and never dealt with appropriately. So it is very harmful, for most of us, as I should know.
Rarely, some of us variously are rid of it, with time and experience, etc.. Prison can help. The uncontrolled drink, not really so much.
Both harmful to others in our daily interactions. But mostly to ourselves. These strong emotions rent free space in our heads, for decades, and seem to effect not only our thinking (as in forgetting out trains of thought!), but important bodily systems as well.
The good news is that these systems seem to repair once we get back into the driver's seat. Lots of ways to keep the immune and other important organ systems from giving up on us.
Mastering anger based emotions isn't the worst place to begin. Just sayin'.
goldengloss
Vierk ~ Compassion cures many ills. Greed, cruelty, what's going on to mother earth at the moment and on an on.
Everyone has anger in them. Some of us more than others. My anger comes up when I feel somebody is taunting me, or abusing me verbally and I have noticed those who are in the 'caring professions' are quite adept at it to on here. So nobody is without sin. If so cast the first stone.
Therapy is just money spent and ending up your own a** .
goldengloss
wrinkly ~ When I've been in love and making love, and feeling loved and accepted, my anger has calmed and I think I am a nicer person.
All this self distancing and mask wearing is not conductive to meeting a nice person and having a relationship so maybe a lot of people affected by this new 'normal' way of life are a little irritable anyway.
merest mention of it’s reality sends hate to the pisser. Where it squirts all over the floor.

I still cannot remember what I was going to say after the first three words. Fukcitt, it’ll c*m to me sooner or latter.

While Jenny and GG are very supportive in general about not hating. Have you taken it a step further towards your readers understanding that you need companionship moreso than compassion -to what purpose do those words have significance to a future partner: c*m and pissing your floor.
(Other than you have mentioned you are lazy.)

It is almost a fetish.Is it? As well as your bio about being a lesbian.I AM not a prude but the attitude towards women may be cumming off as dominant and vulgar.In that regard V is similar.
Except that he equates his superiority and virility with the unnecessary descriptions of his dog's p*nis and frequent condescensions and generalizations of women.

confused You two are both well tolerated by certain older women.
The younger ones are somewhat oblivious intentionally.(we have to assume V does not speak to his own daughters in the manner he does here).
Rarely do young women ever escape these types of lewd references. Their naivete can be feigned in person if it is role play you are virtue signalling.

It is 5 a.m. and work obligations call.
As V stated, perhaps there is a childhood matter unresolved that was sexually traumatic.dunno
As V stated, perhaps there is a childhood matter unresolved that was sexually traumatic.dunno
Apologies I must go.
goldengloss
Ash ~ There is often childhood s*xual abuse involved. you are correct. As for older women [that's me at least in age, I am one year from 70 but don't feel it in my head and am told don't look it but still a 69 year old , older woman, I have not found Vierk to be rude or condescending or vulgar to me personally, or Wrinkly. Just saying.

I do get what you are saying, about young women and the different attitude. I don't taken any sleaze from men, or offense lightly but I have noted that many younger women have lost some dignity in their quest for equality. It does nothing for womanhood. Take care .hug
Right on, Ash, methinks. s*xual traumata for sure, but often other types. and neglect with verbal cruelty, often top the list. As I should well know. Selective, manipulative praise, and fake, VERY fake, signs of love. Yikes!
And sure GG. One often hurts the one one loves. Which can be extended to whom one counsels, no?. But it's important not to kill the hope of others so in need of competent help, which of course need not come from professionals.
Sadly, over time I've learned how few are optimal matches between treater and treated. And often, who would know, or tell, anyway?
A very important element in the effectiveness of a therapist, or many others, is life experience, and groundedness. Training of various sorts can help. But two other things may enter in here, in my opinion and experience..
The ability to carefully find someone potentially good in the first place.
And after a few meetings, the ability (the best will make a careful referral), to be willing to keep looking. But this doesn't mean throwing in the towel for the wrong reasons.
The art is long indeed.
goldengloss
Vierk ~ Very true. I have come across some very highly priced and highly recommended Therapists who just gave out not one jot of empathy, but platitudes and this nodding 'I get you ' sort of looks but the body language was cold .

Having studied Therapy and having been to therapists some if not most are in need of therapy themselves. I know you don't have to be well to be of great help to others but there is a coldness in some, a lack of real understanding other than book learning and the whole process is cosmetic and sanitised.
Another man whom I went to had huge problems around the issue I was discussing and it seemed to affect him more.
I rest my case, and possibly yours.
rolling on the floor laughing You must be receiving some hot and heavy DMs that is kept in secret because the language this blog refers to is what the rest of us women publically receive for " general consumption".
My comments had nothing to do with victimized females, rather Wrinkly and V's comparable level of crudeness and appraisal of all women.Interesting to me was men this age submit for this information for prospective partners as well.( patiently waiting)
Granted some are non-plussed at any age and others may have a higher bar set even for intiating mail or connecting directly on a blog.

Well done GG is you are willing to take all "cumers" with loving open arms.That is an attribute I lack, whether in my younger years or now.I have not been abused so maybe it is a secret code or less offensive in certain regards both general banter or if intended to groom their women.

I have read that water seeks it's own level so I trust that when I feel emmersed in that glow of love it will
less likely be turned on by preludes of tart, hottie, bimbo, dog d*ck or c*m, pissing the floor followed by love yous. Totally common in some circles as I have now learnt.

dunno To each their own history of partnering lessons, healing and higher love or lower love(s).

Rarely am I shocked on CS by men.But they are by and large the farthest thing from what I have ever encountered in my real life.I think I must enjoy being sheltered.

The rare c*ck do crow frequently around here to the genuine affection of you fine feathered chicks.


chicken chicken chicken chicken
Wrinkly ~ My backside would be willing to move towards some physical contact as it's been a while now.
popcorn
Is there anything specific you can add that will help me tell them apart? W. (Scars? warts? big breasts?)

It was Harbal that responded and perchance it might serve your purpose here on this blog as well to ask V.
AI 1984 has always been generous about helping me understand cultural differences, I think I will ask her opinion as well.thumbs up
"Me I'm old and a bloke but the young girls must miss the physical attention.
Six feet distant, most men miss standing over the bowl. W."
confused
Physical attention becomes an imposition after what age?
doh
Sign of dementia?

Hate is a strong word. banana
@GG. .."humour. I love taking off people"
I AM unfamiliar with that term also. dunno
LaFonda maybe he has been growing something with those mystery seeds. giggle

I doubt either man will understand that what they write- even if was is intended as humor or actual criteria for a partner- is very off putting.
But I AM basing it on my limited experiences.
Maybe it gets big view numbers.
confused
goldengloss
Ashlander ~ English and sayings and how we express ourselves is very different in US than here.
I have said I don't take any sleaze from men. I said I had never been personally insulted in any way but the aforementioned Vierk or Wrinkly.
I have a sense of humour yes, and I get a laugh out of blogs that let it all hang out, if you excuse the expression.

I find older men have a macho thing going on and it's a lot more fun than the cool gym bunny men who are looking for fast sex and spend their time on porn sites and expect their woman to be akin to the false reality they watch. Also I have little in common with them. They are lacking a life experience.
I was stating something that is true. The whole Covid 19 has been lonely for me. I live alone and normally love it. I am going to sea tomorrow with a friend but that is not every day. It is not an option to meet somebody just now and I am probably not looking but if a man comes along that I can laugh and get to know and we have the same sense of humour and he can sing, that's a bonus, If he is not a great blogger of politics that's a gold star, if he can do DIY I will tie him up and beat him or whatever he wants. [within reasons] When you get to my age you don't need to impress, they are lucky to have me.... not visa versa. I love fun, and with the right man, sex. I need to feel deep emotion though. This is an ageist site. Life does not stop at 69, I am still a little left of centre from things that happened in childhood but not neurotic and I think it adds spice. I hope that explains the fact I have no problems with the stuff older men write. I kind of understand it.
laugh They are pu**y cats in my hands. The more talk the less....blushing Night all.Sweet dreams.
Gg, you girl are the best.
The thing about interacting with people in online relationships, for me, is being me and being able to broach any subject matter like an adult, not an angry small minded prudish person looking to find fault in those people who one does not agree with. (Or personally like.)

Gg, you are always a breathe of rational air.

As for the rest of the crap by V and A. Are you for real? Not that I have read all of it yet. You do not know me. I know you and I know you both are arrogant enough to think you know me but trust me, neither of you know me. s*xual abuse? Try a different theory or stop projecting your childhood trauma onto my life as if you hold this miracle psychological insight into your own depravity and discord by imposing it upon me.

Ash, try not hating people so much. V, add passive aggressive to your bloated self m**turbating personality type.

Actually c*m to think of it you two are almost perfect for each other although I dread the highbred offspring such an unholy union might spurn. But thanks for reading. I'd read you in return but neither of you have anything interesting to say. W.
LaFonda•2 hrs ago•Irving, Texas USA
Sign of dementia?

Hate is a strong word. banana

Hate is for cowards and gutless turds. I said "what if Hate is weak, not strong". Don't worry, the best part about dementia is being able to hide your own Easter Eggs.

Now what makes you think you have dementia LaFonda? W
ashlander•1 hrs ago•In God's Hands, Oregon USA
LaFonda maybe he has been growing something with those mystery seeds. giggle

I doubt either man will understand that what they write- even if was is intended as humor or actual criteria for a partner- is very off putting.
But I AM basing it on my limited experiences.
Maybe it gets big view numbers.
confused



Do you mean the mystery seeds that Chat is warning everyone about?

I'm not Chat, Ash. We are entirely different people.

I doubt you will ever understand what we write because you want it written your way or not at all. And yes, we all know you are confused Ash. Cheer up, maybe you will get a package with some mystery seeds. W
WoW Ash, that is a lot of "quotes" from a lot of my stories or comments.

Are you stalking me you sexxy Minx? (We all know V is)

And yes, In Context, within the story as written, I stand by anything and everything I have written here or else where. In Context or at least offer directions to where you found it so other people can read the entire story and decide for them self.

Pieces of a puzzle, BeyB. W.
BeyB <- that's exactly what I AM talking about!! rolling on the floor laughing
rolling on the floor laughing You reefered, reefer= to pot plants first.
The conversation went south to abuse by GG and V jumped onto that so it was off subject quite quickly.

I have never been abused, but I said I seldom listen to the man calling all women: tarts, bimbos and hotties.

If you are inclined to blog I will resume asking for help from others.I AM not the 1st person you told that was wondering.The profile confused. Go figure.
It appears this content as written is for your amusement as it should be.Neverminding my
comments, nothing new on CS.
But a quick thanks to GG. She has your number.
thumbs up
Are you stalking me you sexxy Minx?
Hardly. rolling on the floor laughing
I know you and I know you both are arrogant enough to think you know me but trust me, neither of you know me.

Yes! That is exactly what is necessary knowing a person's intents, not guessing.
I do not know you because it is clear you are writing to those that desire the dialog you are comfortable with.
No problem and no you do not know me or my intents as it is no longer your kind of fun either.
thumbs up
Safe Travels GG wave
ashlander•36 mins ago•In God's Hands, Oregon USA
BeyB <- that's exactly what I AM talking about!! rolling on the floor laughing

Do you know BeyB? Ash? Or did you read baby and not Bey B? W.
ashlander•32 mins ago•In God's Hands, Oregon USA
rolling on the floor laughing You reefered, reefer= to pot plants first.
The conversation went south to abuse by GG and V jumped onto that so it was off subject quite quickly.

I have never been abused, but I said I seldom listen to the man calling all women: tarts, bimbos and hotties.

If you are inclined to blog I will resume asking for help from others.I AM not the 1st person you told that was wondering.The profile confused. Go figure.
It appears this content as written is for your amusement as it should be.Neverminding my
comments, nothing new on CS.
But a quick thanks to GG. She has your number.
thumbs up


Yes. But you have to explain this...

"I AM not the 1st person you told that was wondering."

Told what? Wondering what? Who are the other persons? Told them what? And about Gg, you wish in your dreams Ash that I could think so highly of you as I do for her.
And to which number are you referring (not reefering) My Phone number? My what Number? My Skype Number? What number Ash? W.
"Ash, try not hating people so much."
Please do call me Ash.

purple heart
ashlander•45 mins ago•In God's Hands, Oregon USA
rolling on the floor laughing You reefered, reefer= to pot plants first.
The conversation went south to abuse by GG and V jumped onto that so it was off subject quite quickly.

I have never been abused, but I said I seldom listen to the man calling all women: tarts, bimbos and hotties.



Not only do I dare you, I double dare you to find any instances of me using the words "the man calling all women: tarts, bimbos and hotties." To You, or any other female blogger on this site or any other.

To whom are you really referring? Your Father? Your Brother? Your Ex.
It was written about V..jaysus! laugh
Do NOT bother yourself, the truth was clear.
Simply put.
If you need to put me together with V as
rolling on the floor laughing some sort of punishment ..
Yes Ash,

Yes. But you have to explain this...

"I AM not the 1st person you told that was wondering."

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