why are people mean or have to make fun of people

I enjoy going into the forums, although I'm new, and maybe I don't know all the rules, I enjoy putting in my 2 cents worth.
This person came to my profile a few days ago, and had to find every which way today to try to be mean, why? I don't even know the person. I have enjoy reading the things people think or do, the different cultures, but this was like a mad dog....why??dunno
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The other poster is right, you need a thick skin because some people can get very cruel on here. When you post in the forums and in blogs you attract their venom, so just know it's happened to a lot of people on CS and you're not alone. The way I figure it, he/she must be a very unhappy person to get their kicks out of hurting others. hug beer
Ditto. . . ditto. . . ditto.

Carry on as if they don't exist.


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Totally agree with all of the above posts.....head banger recently had a similar expereince...and i cant/dont take it personal....but sometimes its hard not 2....but it does get crazzzzzzzzzeeeeeeeeee........unfortunatley there are alot of unhappy and unhealthy ppl out there and as aresult of their misfortunes feed off of those with good hearts......misery loves company....just dont play their games...ignore....water off a duks bak.......and yes, i love opinions and hearing thoughts of others but needs to be totally respectful....even if u agree to disagree............

cheers to you girl........
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they just bored n got better things to do other than picking on ppl..ignored it ,..ignored it..ignored it. cheers
Did u put something bad about someone?If not he might just feel bad about him self or have anger issues.
Thank you all for the words of encouragement. I will learn to
get a little mor thick skinned, and take it with a grain of salt.
You are all right, it does hurt a little bit, and that's the way the world is, some very unhappy people, you're right...so I'll
get back in there and have fun...I enjoy 99% of you and all the funny things you say, thank you, and the good points that you make!cheers wine bouquet
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That's the way!

Don't worry about a few rotten apples. Have some FUN.


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Hi Laura wave I look at it this way. That sort of person merely demonstrates why they are single.
maybe to raise their poor self esteem

dunno
I too have just had a terrible experience. Comes out pretending to be so holy and pure. Believes in Jesus and creates.
Of course I believed it. We never met, just talked a few times making plans to meet. It wasn't long when the true self came out.
A wolf in sheeps clothing, not creating but bent on destroying with false accusations. Saying all kinds of slanderous things about me, and doesn't even know me. I guess the saying comes back to me. You will know a person by the fruits they bare. Couldn't it be "no thanks, have a nice day".
This has set me back some. Changed my profile to "just here for the forums..." Not interested at the moment. Really scary.
Well I think some people are mean; I think also we live in a society where people want to post, ask peoples opinions, and then expect everyone to support or agree what they do.

I think if you post in todays day and age, you have to have thick skin. People are different; some are more in your face and some softer. Neither type of person should expect everyone to react the same as they do.
omg Mr James if I was only twenty years younger , I would give you a run for your money rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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When people upset me I react with compassion. I feel sorry for people that are on a bad path in their journey. There is good Karma and bad Karma that you can cause. Try not to react and take in his negative energy. Just react with compassion and don't let him get the reaction he wants.

Of course I'm upset for a couple of minutes. Or maybe there are still times where I am quite angry for a while. But learning to react with compassion takes a bit. I'm work in progress. Try it and see how you feel afterwards. It's great!
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