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Vent away, dear E.. We all need to do it from time to time..xx
When you got married what did you say? Was it something along the lines of "all my worldly goods I share with you"..?? Maybe it was nothing like that at all....I have no idea where you married....but the general idea is that you do in fact share your stuff with each other. There's not much point claiming afterwards that you said it but didnt really mean it. Because then you should have had the words changed to "all my worldly goods I share with you....but in the event of divorce they are still really mine". Sorry man but your attitude seems strange to me........anyway hope it works out for you.
sanfranguy, let's hope you don't get taken by the minister's daughter over seas, for US citizenship and half your assets!!
Be careful, she's the devils daughter in disguise!!
Cannot stereotype them woman like that.
Yes, we believe in love, and in the name of love, we sacrifice things. Later, if we fail in that love, we tend to think that the other party had never been in love, if not for the material benefits we deposited in-to that relationship. It’s so nice to talk about unconditional divine love, but every one of us knows that it’s hard to practice divine love, in real life, coz we are human.
I have this very painful experience, where I invested a lot of me, in a relationship, just to find that it’s not the real person, who he was trying to show me. When you come to a conclusion that the real person is far more different to the one you fell in love with, you find it difficult to make up your mind and go back to the original position. Since we are human, we can’t deny being unhappy about the time and assets invested in a failed relationship. It’s totally different to giving something for charity, it’s your life, you invest in a relationship, not extra means that you could happily disposed of. You may have foregone other very important individual needs, becoz of that love. And if you lose that love, which was precious to you in every-way, you tend to ask yourself, whether that relationship worth half of your life or the number of days you spent, building a beautiful castle, together. In your eyes, the other party has failed you.
But, dear Ruben, relationships fail. It’s inevitable, coz of various reasons. The most obvious reason is that one party loosing the grip, leaving the relationship to shudder, slightly at the beginning, leading to a possible disaster at the end. It takes two to keep the fire burning. Its combined efforts of two individuals. When it’s gone, you feel like it was never there, but hey, it was there, and though it exhausted your energy, don’t forget that it also added some very important factors, like understanding about your own-self. When I lost the things I invested in love, and still survived, I realized that I’m really strong and specially, that no material losses can shake me off.
Take care (sorry about the long comment)