To dye or not to dye...

I have a friend, who is a very nice gentleman... He is in his sixties... And he dyes his hair... A few days ago, he said he had to dye it again, because gray hairs were showing... And, I couldn't help but wonder what ladies and gentlemen thought about this particular subject...

I personally think gray hair looks ABSOLUTELY SEXY... Mmmmmmmm... Mmmmmmm... Mmmmmmmmm... devil devil devil But that's just ME... I have told him to embrace his natural handsomeness, but I don't think he will go "natural" any time soon...

Anyway, I would love to know what guys think of males that dye their hair to cover gray... And even more, I would love to read what ladies think, because in my opinion, guys that dye their hair to be more attractive for ladies, might be sabotaging their looks, but again, that's just ME... dunno

In my personal opinion, males that dye their hair might be presenting themselves as very insecure people, and to me, confidence is TOTALLY HOT... But, I will say it again... That's just ME... laugh

Finally, I think the key is to get a nice, modern, haircut... That would totally take years off, if that's what males that dye their hair are trying to achieve...

P.S. I don't dye my hair... And I don't plan to do so... I practice what I preach... wink bouquet

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Look up there!... ROARRRRRRRRRRRR!!!... love smitten devil laugh

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I would think that it would be very natural for a man in his 60's to have gray hair. Having said that, I think that I would find dyed hair a bit unnatural and phony looking. I would say rather than invest in a dye job, invest in a good haircut that embraces the gray. The same can be true for women as well.
Exactly, Kp... I can't agree more... It looks "phony"... It's like those gentlemen that have a hairpiece and it looks like they have a sloth sleeping on top of their heads... doh crying laugh
A senior gentleman with dyed hair looks as strange as a teenager with gray hair...

Thank you so much, for sharing your thoughts... bouquet
Ohhhh! Melody, you'd just love me.laugh My hair turned from blond to light brown to Silver in my late 40's. I wasn't real happy about it, but thought if I attempted to dye it, it would turn orange. And we all know... "Orange man bad"

I see some guys dying their hair black, and it looks like they're dying their hair black.
It's usually jet black and not natural looking. So I'll keep what I got.mumbling
Hola Mel..wave

I myself prefer men with grey hair when older.
It shows some maturity.

As for women..well...
I can't see myself with grey hair as I've always had blond hair and intend to keep it this way.

It may suit some women with short hair but not for me. Sorry!
Loh_key!... Omg... So happy to read you!... bouquet
I would love you, even if you had green hair... laugh You have a wonderful personality and that's a very attractive feature... And I LOVE that you are keeping what you got... I am sure it looks great on you!... bouquet
Hmmmm... actually I find both of those women attractive. love

Maybe I need to rethink this. confused
Sweet Dani, I have to tell you the same I said to Loh_key... You have a wonderful personality and it shines through any kind of hair color you might have... And I am sure if you decided to go natural, all those spanish gentlemen would be drooling also!... bouquet hug
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That was supposed to me this!

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So... What side looks better?...
Neither!
What man could have the patience to dye his beard?

It keeps growing every day!

That would make me crazy! I can't stand even having to shave it all the time much less dye it!
JAJAJAAJAJAJAJAJAJAAJAJAJAJAJAJAJAJAJAJ... That's exactly what I thought!... laugh rolling on the floor laughing laugh rolling on the floor laughing
I know... That has to be some stressful task!... laugh
He looks like my high school music teacher who I saw drinking in a bar in the middle of the day one time and was later fired for being an alcoholic.
Mel hermosa..you've really made my day smitten
But my hair stays like it is..for the next......years?

I'd love to see you with long hair though..have you got another pic of you?
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Yeah Melody, Jim's "complicated " me on my personality also. laugh Not quite as nice of yours though. bouquet In real life I'm a bit more reserved. On here... it's more like WTH.laugh
* meant complemented. oops
Awwww... Sweet Dani... My hair is up on my main picture, tucked inside my cap on my "Garfield's" pic and also up on my "Squeaky clean" picture... It's falling on the side of my shoulder in the picture where my face is inside an eye... I have dark brown straight hair.. I almost always keep it up, because weather here is EXTREMELY hot... As I have said, my city is called "The city loved by the sun"... So I feel in heaven, when I have it up... And when I wake up, before putting it up, it looks like this laugh laugh laugh

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Well, Mr. Loh-key, we all have our private side... But, from what I have seen here, from you, you seem like a very nice, warm, witty and funny gentleman... You have always been really nice to me and you post the funniest comments... I still laugh when I remember the comment you posted to a guy named "Mrlovingintheoven" or something like that... And you called him "Ted Kaczynski"... That was EPIC!... I swear, I had tears in my eyes!... laugh rolling on the floor laughing bouquet
P.S. I hope it was you and I am not taking you for someone else... hole laugh laugh laugh
i consider painting my hair... on my head

lets not talk about under waist hair uh oh
Yes, please... Let's not talk about the hair under your waist... Jajajajajajajajajajajajaja... laugh laugh laugh
Have you picked any particular color for the hair on your head?...

Something like this, maybe?

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Haha. Yeah that was me. Didn't think many would get it, but you're sharp.
I try... wink laugh bouquet
i bought two hair colors, a black one and a silverish white - im gonna go with gray laugh
To date I have never dyed my Grey hair and I like it that way. At times there has been a temptation to have a go and try a different colour as I think most ladies don’t like grey hair and probably makes one look older compared to dark hair.

As far as ladies , I do find ladies attractive with grey hair. Ladies in the picture look beautiful.

And Mel you look great . And you know that as I had sent you a message.
Enjoy.

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Well, Dedo... I think I have an idea of where you will use the black one, then... Jajajajajajajajaajajja... laugh laugh laugh
Oh the vanity of dyeing one's hair.blushing

I have grey hair and actually love it, so much softer and more flattering than a dye which is pretty obvious in some cases.It's called growing old gracefully.

Here are 3 ladies out there and proud. I'm on the right with my 2 pals.

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i planed using it - in the bathroom laugh
Mel thanks for that vote of confidence.
The survey you mentioned , probably looked at the rich and famous. Such as Clooney, Gere, Schofield, Lineker etc.,, lol .

Anyways all is great. Why stress about anything . Hair Today Gone Tomorrow!!
head banger banana laugh cheers peace peace bouquet
Dedo, great idea... Keep it there!... laugh laugh laugh
Yep, M. When Bravo isn't reading the Old Testament, or the Wall Street Journal, I have him give me tips on how to attract the hottie foreign women.
Irresistable.
Yes, 4u... They focused on the rich and famous, BUT, there are a lot of anonymous hotties, everywhere, like all of the people commenting on this blog... bouquet wink
And I absolutely agree... No point in stressing about that... bouquet
Well, sweet Vierk... Bravo and his Daddy are both a pair of hotties and they both embrace their natural handsomeness!... bouquet hug laugh
Quite, M. I find it impossible to even try to mount an argument against that level wisdom.
Hi, Mimi!... wave

I would have to see your natural hair color at this moment, to give an honest opinion about your comment regarding people thinking Art is with his Mom... But, even if your hair was gray, I don't think you would look like his Mom... But you know something?... When we are happy, it truly shows... When we are in love, we glow, we blossom, we radiate it everywhere... And that is the best makeover anyone can get!... bouquet

P.S. I bet Art don't regret any single gray hair of those you say he has gotten since being with you... heart wings
*Oooops!... I meant to say I bet Art DOESN'T
Awwww...Melody, you’re too kind hug bouquet


Here’s a pic taken 6 months ago when the hair salon were all closed. 2 months of not having my roots touched up uh oh

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I couldn't care less what guys do with their hair.
As far as women go, it's not a big deal to me either.
I've never been a fan of short hair on women,
but even that is not a bog deal to me.

(with apologies to Paul McCartney)

When you were young and your heart was an open book
You used to say live and let live
(You know you did, you know you did, you know you did)
But if this ever changing world in which we're living
Makes you give in and cry
Say live and let dye
(Live and let dye)
Live and let dye
(Live and let dye)
What does it matter to you?
When you got a dye job to do
and you do it well.
Live and let dye. laugh
Thank you so much, for commenting, Jim... bouquet hug
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