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a man's story..

I was recently listening to a man. He is about my age, a few years ago him and his wife broke up...she cheated on him. In the meanwhile, he reports that his ex-wife has been with at least 100 different men, including his closest friends.

He goes on to tell me about when they met. She had nothing, not even a place to live. She had a family that wanted nothing to do with her. She had an infant child who her own mother was going to testify in court that she was not fit to be a parent and the father obtain full custody.

He continues by saying, all the years while they were together...he gave her a roof over her head, gave her a comfortable home he built with his bare hands in the cold of winter. He paid her child support and provided her with everything she needed to survive. He taught her how to drive and helped her to get her driver's license. He never laid a finger on her what so ever.

He tells me, I am sure you have your life story as well.

He closes by saying that no longer is he going to let a woman abuse him.


I felt for that guy.



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Comments (39)

I bet the woman has her own version of that marriage.

Oh well, another man that hates women.

We single women better get use to being single. banana
Kalpataru
And that's why I only listened to woman's stories. tongue


Hi Johnny! bouquet
Johnny_Sparton
Laf, I bet. I actually know his ex a bit...maybe I should ask her. You are right though...two sides to every story.
Johnny_Sparton
Hello Kal...

You know, that is why I posted this story...it was from the man's side. :)

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I have a neighbor friend with a similar story. In not sure about the 100 others but similar. He's a really nice guy, but I can see how others can take advantage of his kindness. When he finally left, she got everything. Sometimes people take advantage of other people's kindness. Sometimes they prey on people with these types of personalities.
Johnny_Sparton
That is too bad Loh. I wonder if that might do something for the STD population. dunno
loulou77
John

You are a hurt bird...most of your blogs deal with bad women...no judgment intended...but what I will say...everyone needs to protect themselves from grifters...I also believe it is a survival technique of the less well off...wine
Kalpataru
I once tried to cheer him up, Lou. But he refused. laugh
Both genders get abused whether it be physically or mentally or both..Yep two sides to a story but in saying that it makes my skin crawl whether it be male or female who cheat..Why can't both genders break up with the person they;re not happy with and then root till they drop?
Crazyheart38
Johnny, Johnny, Johnny!!!!laugh

who's this guy ? give me his number laugh
CelticWitch64
Just curious here, did he stick to his word?

wave Johny
Johnny_Sparton
LL...I agree. The ignorant can be sitting ducks and the less ignorant can also be in trouble with the seasoned manipulator....narcassist...
Johnny_Sparton
Thank you Kal...I did appreciate it. :)
Johnny_Sparton
I agree with it being either gender that can hurl pain in a relationship...you are right though, why not just break up and then go on with your life. dunno

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Johnny_Sparton
Maybe you already have it CH....laugh dunno


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Johnny_Sparton
Hello Rose....it is too early to tell. I don't think it happened all that long ago....but I am sure he is a little wiser.

dunno


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CelticWitch64
Eh hello Johny, but its witch again these days laugh

well hopefully he will someday move from limbo land....
sides don't matter but being able to move on does heart wings
Crazyheart38
Maybe. I talk to a lot of people in many parts of USA everyday so he could be one of them but to be sure, give me his name and number.
Johnny_Sparton
Okay Ms. Witch. :)

I do agree...need to move forward, but...maybe he has thought of it not being worth it. dunno The next time I see him I should ask what he anticipates doing.

Loh...did your neighbor move on?
Johnny_Sparton
What would you do with it CH? What happens if his wife left him because he has a small p*nis? laugh tongue
CelticWitch64
will you give over Johny, no matter the ending....
being involved with a woman, is worth everything very happy

You men just don't know how to count your blessings is all roll eyes lol
Crazyheart38
I just want to call him, see if I can interest him with some of our products here...

small p*nis ? are you sure ?
Johnny_Sparton
Perhaps Ms. Witch.

When a man cheats on his woman...maybe he didn't count his blessings.

When a woman chats on a man...maybe she didn't count hers.

dunno
Johnny_Sparton
CH...that is a wonderful idea. Maybe just try and sell him chemicals. laugh
Johnny_Sparton
...and no...not sure...never checked him. laugh
Crazyheart38
see ? I have a valid reason . He might have some need for chemicals, PCBs , we have many other products here.

as for his size...I have my way of finding that out, just give me his numberlaugh
CelticWitch64
Eh confused

lost sheep here... but happy to be strayed crazy

I'll leave you to it wine
Johnny_Sparton
If you can find that out over a phone call, you deserve to be on the cover of the next Time magazine. laugh
Crazyheart38
you doubt my ability ?
Johnny_Sparton
Actually...I don't. I think you could probably get that from him. He is vulnerable CH....don't scar the guy. Women are powerful creatures. laugh
Crazyheart38
you don't like women ? you're scared of us ?

that's not good, you kneel in front of us, please us, make us happy , would only make us adore you .

you get as much as you give , possibly more but you wont get any love if you run away laugh

come on Johnny, the world is going crazy, don't think too much and just go with the flowlaugh
Johnny_Sparton
when did this turn in about me? laugh

Women are good CH. Actually, I just asked one the other night if she was a sh*t filled pie. I was trying to get to know her better. laugh

Sometimes I just get straight to the point. :)

Is that why guys get down on their knee? I have never done that before.
Crazyheart38
yes, you should try kneeling in front of the woman, most of us have a soft loving heart and could easily fall for a man who's willing to do everything to make us happy...what are you going to lose if you get down on your knees ? Nothing ! but you'll more likely get the girlhead banger help
Johnny_Sparton
with feminism, shouldn't it be a two way street...shouldn't women bow down to men too?laugh ...or kneel.
Johnny_Sparton
How are things over there with you CH? I basically live in the backwoods of America and they are saying we are having some major Covid breakouts locally here. I am pretty much on lockdown right now...even though I see so many around the area here not even wearing any mask and treating it as nothing is even going on. I hope it is not that bad by you. Really, hopefully after the election this miraculous disappears. dunno
Crazyheart38
that's not a problem, many women love to worship their man toolaugh

it's shitty here, 48 hours total lockdown every weekend, we used to count less than 10 new cases a day, now we are counting thousands daily , that's why I thought of planting carrots

laugh
Johnny_Sparton
I just thought you really liked carrots. laugh

Hmmm...that is about the same news I am hearing here. :(

We are not on any sort of lockdown....at all. But, I am starting to put myself on one.

By the way, surviving an apocolypse...I would suggest not living in a city.

Really, there are women who worship their man?

...actually....there are some I see. Are you one of them?...worship her man? Can you be tied down with just one man?
alove2hard2find
Really? Did you really say"surviving an apocalypse"? You think covid was or is an apocalypse? You aint seen nothing yet! I realize most of you have absolutely no regard for the Lord or what is in the bible,but......there is something called THE GREAT TRIBULATION..... and whether we WANT to believe it or not....it will make covid seem like paradise! Read it for yourselves!
Johnny_Sparton
No arguing there with you A.

thumbs up


....those of no faith I would guess are going to suffer the most...


why?


...cause things are going to be happening way out of their understanding or control...and only God will be able to sooth their anxieties and discomforts...


I suppose

dunno

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