expats and the like ,,,,
why is it that people who choose to relocate to another country never really do their home work prior to leaving their mother land,,no matter which country you go to you will find expats that create their own communities ,create their own pubs create their own shops create their own life style ,,,i am talking about the majority here not the minority,
the majority never try to learn the language of the country that they selected to live in, hardly ever eat the local food or try to integrate in the community ,
and then they wonder why local councils never make it easy for them to apply for things or services.
another trait of expats is to create their own forum in these countries and then run down and complain constantly about everything under the sun, ,
only today i logged into a local forum and the big talking point was the fact that the british expats could no longer buy british foods like cheese bacon butter ect,ect,,,because being an EU country the big supermarkets were no longer stocking these goods ,,, oh dear me the world has stopped now ,,,,
no not really there are plenty of countries that sell equally good if not better products ,,,
but these die hards will not try other goods because they are so set in their ways,,,
which leads one to ask why they move in the first place ,,
well we all know that weather is probably the first and foremost reason for most people to move ,
cost of living is another reason ,followed by education ,,,
i personally emigrated for a better quality of life first and foremost ,do i miss my traditional foods at first i did , but i soon learnt that the local foods were a delight and a lot more healthy ,
i still occasionally make some of my old favourites but i use local products and adapt ,some times successfully and one or two failures but i have never complained about what i could not have ,to be honest it is quite the opposite i am pleased with what i have gained ,,,,,,,,,,,
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Not everyone sponges of the state.
From day one when I landed in Spain, I mixed up with the locals and wondering what language they were speaking??? Lol
I had some basic Spanish (castellano) and my first friends were from Andalucia, where they don't pronounce the last part of the word!
Anyway, I adapted very quickly and soon became a part of their family.
Food? I can find anything I want here and do not miss anything.
Communities? I don't belong to any as I'm not a groupie and don't follow crowds.
I love the music...the lifestyle...the language...
But..I DO miss the greenery and the snow at times.
I just can't stand people complaining after living here for so many years.
I tell them "if you don't like it, why don't you go back'?"
well i bet you are so glad that you do not live near that awful british municipality known as benidorm gal ,,heaven help the spanish in that area totally destroyed by beer guzzling louts both old and young ,,
i remember last year that the spanish had a march proclaiming they wanted the brits to go home ,,,sadly says a lot grrrrr,,,we have a area here called veliko tarnovo ,,which is a british enclave ,,but that god it is a 3 hour drive away from me ,,the same applies to sunny beach , which sadly is nearer and the locals totally dislike the place ,they say it belittles the country ,,
but you are ok gal because you have a mixed bag where you live ,,,,,
So true that.
England welcomes all nationalities but they do usually act like herd animals and stick to their own roots and language.
planning for your future always pays dividends in the long run ,,,,,
Those that live quiet lives, don't show off, don't complain constantly and take time to get to know the locals are usually welcomed into the community.
When my house got flooded last year it was the locals who came to help clear up the mess, not the ex-pats living nearby.
Not all ex-pats are the same, you cannot generalise.
The jealous comments and sarcasm were hurtful when I first started travelling, but my real friends treated me no differently. Some even came to Asia to visit me and we have always kept in touch.
Now I ignore comments but have to admit to being somewhat loyal to my host countries, so tend to put people right when they spout BS they read in some rag or youtube video, just showing their ignorance.