Confused
I just started my day with a bad thought.Had these feeling of uncertainty.
I've been doing these work for 15 years and yet they haven't seen my worth.
Been doing my best to impress them, but seems like they are ignoring me.
They even have time to hold on to newbie who brings nothing to them but expenses.
Just these work environment thought.
With regards to lovelife, still hoping for the best.
They say that since I am in 40s it would be a waste not having a husband nor kid.
What can I do? No one courts me.
Or if there is, they are just students who still need to prove their worth. I don't like someone who depends so much on someone (say from their parents).
I need someone who is independent enough to have me.
Just a thought.
Good day everyone.:-)
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Blogs will only get you a higher profile viewership, based on what time zone you wish to chat with,
and it is not the chat you prefer, or help you are prioritizing..is it?
This example might motivate you to move faster in
one direction in life.
Best Wishes to you both.
(To the lady included in the link too.)
Welcome to CS!
The photo of you seated on a plan is the best choice.
As far as dating is concerned, get yourself out there. Go out dancing with one of the younger guys that hit on you, so that other available men see you out there. You have a nice smile. Smile at one of the men closer to your age.
If he finds you appealing, that should be motivating enough.
Good luck.
Two things I find important at work;
one, my wages
secondly, mental satisfaction for what I do.
Getting the feeling of being valued at work makes the second part way more easy (and makes me change how I look at my wages)
but I don't let it depend on them.
I look at it as being my own boss.
Can I turn around by the end of the week and say to myself that was a good weeks work ?
If I had to pay myself would I be happy to do so ?
I don't really care if my boss is happy.
I wish they were but with the environment I'm in I'm nothing more than an easy replaced cog of little value.
So I have to give it value myself, make me happy regardless if they are or not.
For the second part and what they say, it is part of Philippine culture and it is alien to me.
Looking from this side of the globe it sounds so old fashioned.
Creating unnecessary pressure where there shouldn't be.
(a Filipino man in his 40s, it would be a waste not having a wife nor kid ? something tells me that would never be said)
Cant help you with courting or dating advice but if you have to wear the old fashioned cloak of spinster, wear it like a fashionista !