They say that Women are More Sentimental/Emotional Than Men

Is this type of stereotyping justified and why do we think this?
Seems that we form this belief because women are more likely to show or express their emotions than men.
Dates are a huge sentimental issue for most/some women too, eg. anniversaries, important dates,birthdays and even little pieces of scrap paper with scribbles made by her kiddies a few decades ago.
Not sure if most men really use something called 'emotional expression suppression' or is it just more convenient to put it aside?
Why are some/most men the complete opposite in this phenomenon, not remembering, not being sad on certain 'important dates etc. Just plain forgetfulness?
Guys like me are constantly in deep water due to a lack of so called sentiment...

Personally speaking, I have my own set of values which might differ to most.
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Luke you can cry on my shoulder anytime.

I will not think any less of you. wave
I just watched you leave and get in your truck.
Thanks for the memo.laugh
What’s are your “own set of values “ that are different from most ? confused
Emotional expression suppression..is that what the dumb look is..short for dumbfounded,not dummy.
I had lost in the storage fire,
keepsakes of value.crying
Hi Laf
You seem like a very understanding person with lots of empathy. But what happens when the sentimental Lafonda kicks in? Do you come out with blazing guns or still a passive shoulder offering? Its just a fact many women are sometimes controlled by their emotions. I could be wrong though. :laugh
Hi Rh,
And your cheque is in the post.

laugh
rolling on the floor laughing I understood your blog.cheers
"Hi Laf
You seem like a very understanding person with lots of empathy. But what happens when the sentimental Lafonda kicks in? Do you come out with blazing guns or still a passive shoulder offering? Its just a fact many women are sometimes controlled by their emotions. I could be wrong though."


Luke, I am an understanding woman with empathy (my university studies helped).

I am not like MOST women. I'm not emotional.
As stated before, you can cry on my shoulders and the best part is that will be our secret.

I think you know that I'm out spoken and tell it like it is, but those spoken words are kept between the people involve. That's the way it should be.

Have a great cry my friend and feel better tomorrow. lips
@ Laf
Wow you certainly sound like 'Simply the best ' and with that said, no email or banking details were exchanged...rolling on the floor laughing
Hope you have a great day there.
That depends on the emotion. Women second that emotion as an appeal to the group writ large.

But angry is like a man. The angry man. A man angry is looking to win a fight in no way is the anger an attempt to curry favour with the person you're angry at. It drives the force of your punch way beyond the normal like when Biff got knocked out at the end of Back To The Future. It's an appeal to yourself.
Anger plays a role in reaching the top. Tyrants can get angry it's all part and parcel with saying I don't need no friends. You could be very much mistaken but I guess it's also the idea that the buck stops somewhere. Leaders who don't think like a woman or a committee, but those who make it happen and are left the only ones responsible to take the blame. And blamed they will be by an angry upstart looking to replace him.
All the other emotions are to do with rising to the top of our affections. You know that tears will bring people to your aid, and smiles, there'll be more fake smiles and crocodile tears around women but only because there are more real ones. The group will help. Anger is quite the opposite. The group will harm and therefore you learn how not to smell weak.
Hi CC,
That depends on the emotion.

Totally agreed.
The level of emotion differs a huge amount lets say between the unexpected loss of partner and the level displayed when the baby takes her first steps.
I do get what you are saying.beer
Personally I prefer no hostages or collateral damage.
Night reconnaissance and sniper tactic.rolling on the floor laughing
There is no top, only valor.
Personal choices,uh oh
"@ Laf
Wow you certainly sound like 'Simply the best ' and with that said, no email or banking details were exchanged."


It's pro bono. You don't have enough to bother with banking details. laugh help
Hi Laf
Those words are sooo true.

Big favor please.

Please spread the word.applause cheering laugh
Luke rolling on the floor laughing
That reply was to Chesney's lone wolf theory:
"Anger plays a role in reaching the top. Tyrants can get angry it's all part and parcel with saying I don't need no friends. You could be very much mistaken"
Followed up with his crying wolf theory.laugh
All the other emotions are to do with rising to the top of our affections-Chesney


Discretion is the better part of valor.
Rh
You should let the man deal the best way/any way that he chooses to deal with his emotions. Maybe thats only one way he deals with them, only he will know right?
Live and let live. dunno laugh
wave I took it to be about women Luke.
It applies...wolf! crying thumbs up
I learnt my lesson early. When I was about 9 or 10 we were trying to round up the pigs out in the field. One of them raced past me and my father came over in a rage and was shouting into my face about holding my position and turning him back. After a minute my eyes teared up and he lost it and called me a cry baby. That was the last time I cried. Even at funerals after that I would jam my thumb nail into the side of my finger until it hurt, that did the trick, like the baby shampoo, no more tears.sad
Sad.teddybear Maybe that is why men turn to booze and end up divorced.
Hi Rh
One hundred percent correct, it is totally about women and their emotions. Apologies, iI actually thought that you were answering Chesney's comment......But I do agree with whatever you say too.
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Hi Orzzz
Yes it's a kind of mixed up stereotype pot of soup when I think of it. Your words put it in the right context so its more comprehendible (not sure if thats the right word) to me.
Thanks O.
Hi Ged.
Can't but wonder if Orzzz is right with her assessment of your situation. dunno thumbs up
What is my situation Luke?
Kinda thought your situation was the inability to cry due to dads actions on a youngster and then your self pain infliction to stop the tears.
Thought Orzzz 's statement: Maybe that is why men turn to booze and end up divorced, had bearing on your situation.
Seems I was mistaken.
Kinda thought your situation was the inability to cry due to dads actions on a youngster and then your self pain infliction to stop the tears.
Thought Orzzz 's statement: Maybe that is why men turn to booze and end up divorced, had bearing on your situation.
Seems I was mistaken.
You're free to think and assume whatever you wish to and so is everybody. Peoples lives can't be summed up in one sentence so it's difficult to make final judgements. I don't think I would try.
Tnx buddy I will do thatthumbs up
Sentimentality is not gender related. There are mean men and women and there are nice men and women.
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