What?!
Update on my Ex-friend.Someone told me that she’s been asking some people why I am not talking to her. What?! Was she asleep when she did what she did to me? Or did she forget about it?
If she really cared about our friendship, why ask other people instead of directly coming to me and ask me?
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You say you are the straight forward type...telling it how it is....perhaps you should tell her how it is.
Wish you the best.
So, no. It’s not worth the effort or time. I’ll just rant once in a while. But not not really waste energy into fixing the relationship.
It is understandable your position here.
Sometimes in times like this, relationships can be even made stronger. But, I can certainly understand where you are coming from, so I am not encouraging anyone to do anything they don't want to... I am just letting you know how I see it.
If she asks you directly, tell her that you were told by several people, that she was telling lies about you behind your back.
This thread has an air of daytime soap opera about it.
Why not focus on more positive aspects of life, and aspire to better things.
Move on.
They are not worth your time.
From when you both are friends.......
I am kind and usually, very patient. I don’t usually judge people because i get judged a lot and i know how it feels. I tolerate things that I can, but I have limits.
Disloyalty is one of the hard non negotiable limit.
Hello Taimoore
I felt bad when I decided to distance myself from her. But sometimes, i have to choose myself as well. Thank you
Most Asians who posts in the blogs are ridiculed due to their culture difference. The idiots who ridicule are ignorant fools who are attention seekers, blind as to how people live outside their own insularities.
I am not the cleanest most righteous person. But i try to the best i can to live by what I believe to be true and right. Where my goal is kindness and purity of heart. That is my weakness but that also is my strength.
No, you were being mean. And you tried to make fun of me. Accused me of playing the victim for sympathy. And Accused me of posting BS on the internet.
It’s alright though. And thanks for the suggestion.
But no, no more talking out with her. She stepped on the limit more times than I could tolerate.
Thank you. Have a nice day
Thank you for having the back of asians.
Obviously my opinion didn't suit your narrative.
I wasn't mean at all.
No worries. Have a fantastic day
Along comes Riz.
"Most Asians who posts in the blogs are ridiculed due to their culture difference. The idiots who ridicule are ignorant fools who are attention seekers, blind as to how people live outside their own insularities"?????
Yeah, because Riz knows best. Hmmmmm, sounds a tad "white" saviour mentality to me? Your hypocrisy has no bounds Rizzy.
In your case if she truly is wondering why, she will eventually ask you what is wrong. Then when you tell her sh won't remember it that way. Such is humanity.
Indeed it is a sad world where people suddenly get amnesia. Or she has different personality when she did what she did. Or she was possessed or something. But as What our common friend told me. She did it on purpose. Because she was there when our friend said that she would do it.
Then now she asked if i thought she was the one who did it. I wonder if she ever feels guilt. I feel sorry for her.