What?!

Update on my Ex-friend.

Someone told me that she’s been asking some people why I am not talking to her. What?! Was she asleep when she did what she did to me? Or did she forget about it?

If she really cared about our friendship, why ask other people instead of directly coming to me and ask me? dunno roll eyes
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Mc, I would refer you to look at my previous comment on your other blog. dunno

You say you are the straight forward type...telling it how it is....perhaps you should tell her how it is.

dunno

Wish you the best.
By the way, I am sorry to hear you are going through this.
Im straightforward. However I don’t think i would welcome her again in my life. Not after what she did. Loyalty is essential for me. And ive had enough.

So, no. It’s not worth the effort or time. I’ll just rant once in a while. But not not really waste energy into fixing the relationship.
I am sure your ex-friend has some suspicions as to what is going on...but she may not know the whole of it.

It is understandable your position here.

Sometimes in times like this, relationships can be even made stronger. But, I can certainly understand where you are coming from, so I am not encouraging anyone to do anything they don't want to... I am just letting you know how I see it.

dunno

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Thank you for always giving me a different perspective Johnny. You’re always kind and understanding. Thank you. I take your words to heart with consideration. purple heart
You are welcome Mc. hug
Keep her wondering. Maybe she will eventually kiss up to you, rather than the reverse. laugh
If she asks you directly, tell her that you were told by several people, that she was telling lies about you behind your back. scold
Is it really appropriate to air personal squabbles in public?

This thread has an air of daytime soap opera about it.

Why not focus on more positive aspects of life, and aspire to better things.

Move on.
People like those you avoid.

They are not worth your time.
MissChille
From when you both are friends....... handshake
Hi Lafonda wave
I am kind and usually, very patient. I don’t usually judge people because i get judged a lot and i know how it feels. I tolerate things that I can, but I have limits.
Disloyalty is one of the hard non negotiable limit.



Hello Taimoore wave
I felt bad when I decided to distance myself from her. But sometimes, i have to choose myself as well. Thank you handshake
As usual, the replies show a lack of understanding, not about the subject but the culture difference between Asians and Westerners.
Most Asians who posts in the blogs are ridiculed due to their culture difference. The idiots who ridicule are ignorant fools who are attention seekers, blind as to how people live outside their own insularities.
I understand that westerners mostly are used to people who are untrue and tainted. Goodness of heart is being laughed at as naivety. And kindness is thought of as an act.

I am not the cleanest most righteous person. But i try to the best i can to live by what I believe to be true and right. Where my goal is kindness and purity of heart. That is my weakness but that also is my strength.
MrBoDangles

No, you were being mean. And you tried to make fun of me. Accused me of playing the victim for sympathy. And Accused me of posting BS on the internet.

It’s alright though. And thanks for the suggestion.
But no, no more talking out with her. She stepped on the limit more times than I could tolerate.
MrBoDangles

Thank you. Have a nice day wave
Hi Rizlared wave

Thank you for having the back of asians. wave teddybear
No, I gave you my opinion.
Obviously my opinion didn't suit your narrative.

I wasn't mean at all.

No worries. Have a fantastic day teddybear
Like clock work.

Along comes Riz.

"Most Asians who posts in the blogs are ridiculed due to their culture difference. The idiots who ridicule are ignorant fools who are attention seekers, blind as to how people live outside their own insularities"?????

Yeah, because Riz knows best. Hmmmmm, sounds a tad "white" saviour mentality to me? Your hypocrisy has no bounds Rizzy.

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There seems to be a lot of that forgetfulness going around. Just the other day someone I spoke of told me she really didn't remember a promise or telling me some untruths. It is psychological I think rather than a head injury knocking out their Medulla. It is easier for their psyche to pretend they are always a good person and allow memories of what they did wrong to get lost somewhere in their RNA. That way everything remains a mystery and they have no clue why so and so stopped being a super friend.
In your case if she truly is wondering why, she will eventually ask you what is wrong. Then when you tell her sh won't remember it that way. Such is humanity.
Hi Ken

Indeed it is a sad world where people suddenly get amnesia. Or she has different personality when she did what she did. Or she was possessed or something. But as What our common friend told me. She did it on purpose. Because she was there when our friend said that she would do it.

Then now she asked if i thought she was the one who did it. I wonder if she ever feels guilt. I feel sorry for her.
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