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I wonder why women dont answer messages that you take the time and trouble to write.frustrated javascript:emot('frustrated');
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I vividly remember my first letter to a man long distance that I sent, and a thoughtful one too, with no replu...so what can one do??
it does make sense, that if you reply to a letter, the guy may think you are interested in him. This happened to me too. I just wanted to let him know we did not have enough in common to continue. dunno
The women probably do not reply for the same reason men do not reply to women, they just are not interested due to the fact you do not meet their criteria:
we are to old
are not attractive enough
do not have the perfect figure
do not share enough common interests
ect
ect
ect
I agree with Eve, you probably just don't match their profile search. Like I have lots of mail from smokers even though I state "no smokers". Sometimes I wonder if anyone reads the profiles. I will never respond when no photo is on-line. Don't take it personnally.crying
yeah i agree with Eve too. it makes you wonder if it's all worthwhile being on here!!dunno sigh
I am just like you very madfrustrated: frustrated uh oh mumbling
Yup! It's a jungle out there. It's also a jungle in here at times. You may be very fortunate that many don't reply.
You're such a handsome guy, too.

Maybe a $$ shrink $$ could help your confusion.
I am new to this dating idea.
But i did not have problem so far..
I think as long you clearly and politely reply that you are not interested they should understand unless they are ...well thickdoh
If they keep bothering you ,then block them perhaps.
I answer messages if it is from someone who matches what I am looking for and there is a picture. If they don't take the time to read what I am interested in, why should I reply.
I guess I'm different. I answer all the mail that is sent to me, even if the person doesn't 'match' me. I figure the worst that can happen is that my circle of friends expands. I was told once that you can't have too many friends. cheers
I think we get tired of writing long letters and no one responding back and then when we are responded too its the wrong ones. sigh yay
I heard it's because they get so many, they can't possibly respond to them all. My inbox is the same.....dead....and the dating site I used before this one, my inbox was dead. You will probably have to email like 100 before you get a reply.
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