strange female anomaly

I know this guy, he is a good friend. He recently told me about 100's of women who started to send him friend requests on FB. He told me, I don't know what is going on. So he decided to start chatting with some of them.

He showed me their pictures. They are gorgeous women in their 30's.

So, he figured some, if not all, these women are most likely scammers. So he told the ones he was interested in talking with, to take a picture of themselves holding up three fingers. He said some never responded back.....some took offense...and some actually did take selfies with three fingers being held up. He even showed me. Beautiful ladies, holding three fingers up.

He was even more baffled as to what was going on. Because he figured he would not get any of these women to actually do that because he figured they were just scammers. So, he could not really figure out what was going on.

Finally, a possible explanation. After talking with these women for days, they started to come clean with him. These women had some stuff in common. They had children and they were about to become evicted. One woman even told my friend that she could learn to love him.

So...take that for whatever it is.

My friend figures that people were set up. They were given all this unemployment money. They were told that they did not have to pay rent. With the additional unemployment money they were given, my friend figured that they no longer qualified for welfare programs due to their income now being too high. ...and on top of it, these people will need to pay income tax on that income....and they are without a job in many cases.

To me...the easy answer to these women's problems is to go out and get a job. But, is it really that easy for them to do? What happens to the children when they start working? Maybe they don't have parents that will watch the kids for them. What happens if employers are hesitant on hiring them? As far as I know, a person's credit rating is assessed by potential employers...and if they have not been paying their rent, then what?

Anyway...food for thought. I am still wondering how hundreds of women decided to send him friends requests....but, I have seen it with my own eyes and the problems that some of these single mothers are facing seem to be the real deal.



dunno


The only thing I can think is...no matter what, it is difficult to escape the consequence of our decisions...even more so today with privacy eroding.
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We are all alone, born alone, die alone, and in spite of True Romance magazines, we shall all someday look back on our lives and see that, in spite of our company, we were alone the whole way. I do not say lonely, at least, not all the time, but essentially, and finally, alone. This is what makes your self-respect so important.. -Hunter S. Thompson
I suspect that if this is a case of maternal instinct in doing what must be done to feed her kids, using her body to attract a provider / protector probably goes back to the dawn of mankind.

It's probably the driving force behind Welfare, or at least its initial passage.

Sad, but something to be expected in the natural order of things.
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This was predicted by followers of government corruption and a focal point for MGTOW.
Cancel culture, the #MeToo movement, prevalent divorce rates (72 per cent of those which are initiated by women) and the risk of losing a substantial amount of assets with future income in settlements are major factors backing MGTOW’s philosophies. A firm belief in these philosophies led to minimizing interactions with women to focus on their “own health, success and happiness.

Men are also addressing the probability of economic collapse and certain methods of survival, legal battles in the child custody courts, much to others chagrin. If taken seriously, and not as a movement or a counter measure it would be seen globally for what it is.
This makes me question another aspect of global intervention into family values.thumbs up
As a matter of fact we are seeing more men on CS without the need to invest in a home,seeking out women who own one to play house with.laugh

Posted 5 days ago.

There have been prepped debates whether anyone is really safer in a house.
CORRECTION: substitute Misandry for Androgeny.
r so well i get loads of mail fit younger men grin saying they saw my profile doh and reckon i am hotwow grin

All the same.

I do not hate men but HOT that was a LIE laugh
They couldn't locate you anyways..rolling on the floor laughing
Red going her own way thumbs up
Yep rose some men are just as bad as some women grin teddybear
Correction: substitute misandry for androgyny.

Correction2: don't read anything I've written.
"I even had one years ago that tried to make me a mule."
Jaysus! ! ! wow
Snow melting early this season!
Interesting blog.
Tell him to date a few of them and take under his wing the best and not only by looks.
Same to you Johnny. Take one. Get a gf and save a family at once.
I'd do the same if I was over there. Here the payouts and the whole pandemic
seems to not have gotten as bad results besides welfare system and all scooping up the rest,
for the most part. I myself got paid out about 1500$ for lost income in about 40days and
was thankful for it. Easy process too, got the money a few days after the internet application
was sent.

Save one Johnny.
Conrad, you've been predicting my downfall for quite some time now!
rolling on the floor laughing

seriously, people have to quit putting the cart before the horse

a good match starts with a conversation rooted in reality, not pictures
meal tickets aren't just male. i've been one.
Hello Bo-Jack,

Thanks for sharing the quote. I wonder how many truly find those word exact. I suspect many. I do agree, self respect is great...as is respecting others too. It has to be a two way street for people to thrive as one.

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Boh....I was surprised to hear when one of the women told my friend she could learn to love somebody....as if she no longer had the capacity to love in the first place. Maybe the way I see things are a bit skewed, but that is how I read it.

In other words, even if she was not in love with him from a spiritual level, she could love him on a superficial level. I am not sure one can really learn how to be in true love. dunno

....you either put all your interest in the one you are with or you do not.

Just food for thought, I wonder if it is possible for one man to fully complete a woman. dunno

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Hello Rose,

I suppose being a man....and yes, I am going my own way. I would rather be on my own and single than be with some woman that will make my life a living hell. That is not to say I hate women, but that is to say before I do get involved with one I better have an idea who I am playing ball with first.

I live in a small town and the women....including the men too....but mostly women who are single are single for a reason. They don't want to be tied down to just one man. That is boring, especially in the bedroom. But, I know a very tiny handful of men that live by the same philosophy.

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Boh,

I think you hit the nail on the head.

From my years of research and blogging, I have come to the conclusion that women are easier targets for agendas such as you mention to work.

In general, women make more decisions from an emotional standpoint and men from a rational perspective. In addition, women are more agreeable. You make women all agree that they should be upset...they will make decisions from that emotional framework.

My opinion anyway.

dunno

In reality....it don't matter if I am right or wrong here. No matter what, the dirt will be shaken from the rug and will be there for all to see. We cannot escape the results of our decisions.
Hello Ex,

Sounds like you should be getting your high heels on and going out dancing tonight. grin

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laugh Luke,

Hello Snow.

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Hello Conrad as well. wave
Hello Palm,

I am guessing you made a good meal. laugh tongue

You are right though with love, it needs to start with getting to know one another....not being in need of a place to live for yourself and your children.

...in the past I have heard that though, I am staying with him because I cannot afford the bills on my own. confused Maybe this is not a new thing.

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But, Johnny,

It's worked for Tom.

It can work for them too.


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