Patriarchy vs Equal rights

It drives me mad, after 10 years of intense search of a wife on this site, that I see the following scheme in almost every female profile:
The better they look, the less they write - They mustn't, why should they ...
I once heard that there were apps, able to decide over beauty and attractiveness, what means to give a note upon beauty, (how I see it, key competence of women = key decision criteria of men upon women).
My bet is that if I asked 100 men what the most they searched in women so the vaste majority would say "beauty". And that, by way and work of evolution, is what they get. A partner half his weight and and with professions like "hair stylist / nail studio", "bureau" and "finance". As I see it, all jobs (I speak of the vaste majority as far as I could observe it) - all jobs of an inferior practical value, compared to strenght oriented jobs of men. I wondered how smalll was the number of women here on this site, using tags at all, and next to none would come up with a longer list of own tags. Maybe this is why this site doesn't advertise tags well enough. And maybe because women, the prettier they are, the less work they invest in thinking about what exactly they search. Or it could be that they know by instinct that no man would want a women that he could not shape and mould alongside his own values, so it would not be wise for a women to advertise her own preferences in detail. Most women's profile have an identical 3 or 4-line text. I would like to make a science, a field of research about that. In my eyes, all these texts are bullshit, - or I have a completly different idea of what is essential in life and partnership.
Other things than "Good sense of humor", "Layed back" and what the most used tags say here.
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I have a problem with the whole western society in terms of equal rights granted to women.
I saw in my youth only women jumping from one love and bed into the other, because their beauty, given temporarily by their youth, allowed them that. I admit that is no scientific statement, just how I saw it.
.. I continue my writing later.