Men's profile pictures

Are often so off-putting ,scruffy beards are so common. I like beards but neat and clean not looking like a deserted birds nest . Guys posing in the shower sends the wrong message as does the picture of men lying in bed .Well you know what that message is don't think I need to voice it. If men can't make the effort to look presentable I know they will be exasperating untidy types who open cupboard doors empty drawer contents onto floor because they can't find anyrhing in their mess. They likely throw their clothes on the floor then pick them up wear them again for weeks by the looks of some guys, they may even sleep in them . Work clothes are acceptable of course not talking about that it's the guys slouched on couch who had sudden impulse to join a site and are so out of touch they have no clue how sloppy they look. Perhaps there's equally sloppy women it's quite the norm miwadays in certain sections to look like a slob . Older men in hoodie!s!! Don't get me started .....dress like an adult but then .....you obviously don't give a fiddlers
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i don't like children in pictures or the obvious cropping of girlfriends. the good thing is, we can weed them out. also, candid shots of profiles as if they don't know their photo is taken or shades. lol again, good clues. they're actually a blessing. let's not make them wise. wink
Golly, I can't fathom why men haven't snapped you up.

(rolls eyes)
Nostrus, you know we could use some advices ,something like a personal stylist
do you have skype,viber grin
i've been deleted? news to me. wtf?
Not joking but I have thought about it as a business idea: to look through guys profiles
contact them and offer advice of a freshing-up for a photo shoot + advice on how to write
the presentation. Pictures being the most important.
That could be a business for me.

But I only wonder how much they are willing to pay.

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Haha, that was you? Ok then sweetoe lips
Have you considered Wing Commander McBob ?
...aka ripper the Empath.

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Famine of Feel- good Phonics....wave
@Boh
I can fathom why women haven't snapped you up. Oh yes, I can certainly fathom that.


@nostros.
Good points, I will take them on board if I ever decide to post my picture up again.
snow, clever you don't exhibit my no-nos. lol you're def ligit
No eYes..no Nose...no Face..
.. Fuching know Nothing.
I fully agree with NOSTRUS... I've often commented to myself about the lack of 'presentation' of some men here, and although I'm new and respect their choice to look sloppy, I also believe that it's a direct reflection of what they think about their 'search' on CS. If a man is serious about impressing the ladies, it's important to look as though you take care of yourself...How else could you convince a discerning woman that you could take care of her (not that she may need you to)?
Instead, some of them look (and sound) as though they're hoping that the ladies are so desperate that they would overlook that altogether...and don't get me started on their lack of effort with providing info (and true/actual pics of themselves) on their profiles.
Maybe pics of men with a numerical plaque across their chest and a left and right profile side with the same plaque would entice the girls here? Oh, I must be thinking of the booking dept from the local arrest records. Though the quality women from the same booking dept leaves much to be desired.
@NOSTRUS

Men's profile pictures Huh?

How about the women profile pic?

Lets face it dating sites area a fake world where the most are in just to live another life ,the one which they can't live in the real world.
Whether anybody care to admit it or not...
wine

I've seen plenty of women's profile pics that were in poses for that specific pic,which to me says ain't real=fake coz a pic its just a moment in life.
While a person is way more than just a picture in a specific pose.
A person is what that person has in mind,points of view,whats actually the right thing to to and the wrong thing to do...
So a pic its just a form of introducing itself,while behind the pic there way more..

Though i've read plenty of profile where these women were saying i'm honest caring bla bla bla bla bla..
Some generic stuff everybody say for convenience,while a person is even more than generic stuff,at least i am..
Most certainly women that do not answer to someone messages just skip ahead coz do not bother to actaully initiate a Honest and challenging conversation with someone that doesn't fit there generic specification " Generic ",but these women hide behind the fact that men cannot take No for an answer..
Well i took plenty of No and i was good with it since that person most certainly wasn't interested on getting to know me for whatever reason,but that person was lacking of honesty/guts to be direct.

What just stated its because the internet allow people to play a different personality since a person hide behind a screen and a keyboard..

Ending my point of view being/selling anything different than what u actually its just playing mind games over the internet...

Whether U NOSTRUS like it or not its what think,and i care to admit i've met few fake in here,i also met few that loved play mind games,along with few that pretended to be honest but they weren't actuaally honest,or honest on convenience which is the worse way of honesty..

So Dating sites with fake people no thank you with or without pics are still fake is these persons cannot speak up their minds or speak up their minds for their own convenience...

Yep today's human kind is turning into fake over the internet...
Probably people on dating sites are soooo desperate?
Not a clue...

I'm not desperate since i pretend " honesty from the start all the way " and skip anything that doesn't sound honest...

wine

Dare to admit that so far i fund only one gal that agrees with my point of view..

And dare to admit we keep in touch outside for the purpose of getting to know each other coz making friends first is just a BS since to become friends it takes time,the same time that it takes to see if the 2 are meant to be on each other lives or NOT.

Dare to admit i am happy i met that gal,mostly because we agree on some points of views.

Going back on becoming friends first, oh well it depends on what kind of friendship..

True friendship?

Fake FB friends?

FB 500 friends in a life time nobody will be able to call that many people friends True Real Friends,perhaps in 5 or 6 lifetime someone will?

Or Perhaps is a self defense mechanism?

Not a clue since i have hard times people on dating sites..

Wisdom not part of human kind now days...

wine

Not a wise a.s.s,not a wise person,a simple person that has its brain connected with Reality and realistic enough.

wine
omg that funny
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