Interesting dynamics between men and women
I went out last night to the bar.When I first arrived, there was a group of 4 women in there drinking a lot and having a lot of shots. They were listening to upbeat dance music with lyrics geared towards what women demanded in a man. These women were laughing, hollering and having an obvious fun time.
After they left...partying for over an hour....in comes a group of 4 men. They were all sort of quiet, drinking their beer and talking to one another periodically, but mostly they were watching the college football game. One of the men went to the juke box and started playing music. The music was men singing about how their women left them...how lonely they were...and such and such.
Sitting off to the side observing this, I was fascinated by the difference in dynamics between these women and these men. Referencing back, I think this dynamics is common. What do you think? Is this something you witnessed between women and men when they are out for a night on the town?
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Men don't expect any support from the other guys, we know it's up
to ourselves. No man can help, that is our thinking. You're on your own basically.
Women probably think more group, mental boost, "let the good times roll"
"fake it till you make it" or something of the sort.
I know more about how the men thinks.... lol, so I'm guessing here.
Are the women too demanding? Nah, I don't really think so.
But I see more girls than men being on about "a healthy lifestyle"
like it's a goal in itself. We men try to avoid it... is my impression, hehe.
There we have a difference I'd say.
Interesting blog Johnny.
But never think the difference is larger than what binds us, the two genders.
Trust me there is hope.
Unless you are really good looking and can call the shots consistently (I had a roommate who had to deal with an endless stream of aggressive women), it's the women picking the men.
I seem to find people in the coffee shop section (or used to) at the local book stores. (or is it that women find me, at large book stores?)
Women might be prowling for men, while they are distracted at the local home repair depots. Men are easily approached by saying 'can you help me find, such and such?'
Heck, one young lady picked me up from the other side of a gas pump. It's never when I've been looking.
So unfair.
No, that one's not taken; I don't mind if you sit here
I'll be glad to share
Yeah, it's usually packed here on Friday nights
Oh, if you don't mind, could I talk you out of a light?
Well, thank you, could I drink you a buy?
Oh, listen to me. What I mean is can I buy you a drink?
Anything you please
Oh, you're welcome. Well, I don't think I caught your name
Are you waiting for someone to meet you here?
Well, that makes two of us, glad you came
No, I don't know the name of the band
But they're good, aren't they?
Would you like to dance?
Yeah, I like this song too, it reminds me of you and me, baby
Do you think there's a chance that later on I could drive you home?
No, I don't mind at all
Oh, I like you too, and to tell you the truth
That wasn't my chair after all
Oh, I like you too, and to tell you the truth
That wasn't my chair after all
Pls try to post the video "The chair by George Strait
I am too stupid to use a pick up line. I would probably mess it up in the middle of saying it.
Are you still willing to facilitate Mel's and my union.
(she looks dumbfounded by the line)
(In your best Jethro Bodine voice, huge smile)
'Missy, you look dumbfounded. Well, you're in luck, 'cause I'm dumb and ya found me.'
Yeah Crypt