I am convinced that I was born under an unlucky star.
Don't judge me too hard when you read this blog. A few weeks ago, I got a message on Instagram from a woman. In that message, I was told that her friend thought I was hot. Naturally, I was a bit taken aback, because I have never looked in the mirror and gone "Yeah, I am so damn hot, dude". I was then told the username of the person who found me attractive. I had a look at her profile, and I decided to write her, since she looked like a nice person.We hit it off instantly, spending hours a day talking. We even laid plans to meet up, once the school holidays had begun.
The other day, we talked about the concept of friends with benefits, and we were both in agreement, that we would engage in that, in secret. It would be hers and my secret, since we both thought it would be the best course of action, due to the age gap.
She has just turned 18, so she's 19 years younger than I am. I don't really mind, since she's over the age of consent and an adult. If she was 16, it would be a completely different story, but she's not. It is also a completely different story, when we are not engaging in a romantic relationship.
The other day, out of the blue, she wrote me and said that her and her family were moving to Norway, and they were going to look at a house there today. That meant they were leaving yesterday, and this is the part where my bad timing comes into play.
Whenever things seem to go my way, something happens. Back when I started my first retail job, a few days before I had my first day, there was a story about the chain I was hired at. Back when I moved to Scotland in 2014, a few days after I arrived, they held a referendum, where the aim of it was to make Scotland a separate country. It was also the time when a "weather bomb" hit Scotland and the northern part of England.
No matter what, even when I get the slightest fortune, something (or someone) somewhere goes "Oh you are beginning to have a successful time? Here, have a disaster strike."
So, long story short: Possible FWB has moved to Norway, leaving it uncertain when or if we will meet up.
Does anyone have any ideas how to change my luck? Because it's beginning to get very annoying..
Comments (9)
Not that the rest of the world is way better tho....
Very true, like water waiting for the current
answer to this surprisingly simple:
Speak to her on video asap, I don't care where she's at.
Then you will soon know.
You overthink things sometimes and as Melody said;
don't drag your own chances down.
If you two hit it of on video you will not long after meet.
There is ferries and there is nighttrains and there are planes.
Act like a winner from now on, is my advice.
It ain't so easy to be Danish in Norway. It's something about language difficulties
so she might want a 'good friend' from home. Try it out. Don't sit on the fence.
Sounds dodgy to me.