Art of War

Can we use Art of War for love and relationship? Recently I have studied it as Art of War is common sense in our culture. I have never really looking into it. It is fun reading. I don't understand why in the past people like to have wars. Men and Women are also like Art of War. When a man and woman met, what are the chance they could fall in love? In the past, I have never hidden who I am or how I feel. I thought the world would be like before I was single. Now I not only burn my brain for my work but also need to more energy in the world today. Men are like hunter in the past if I have my photo shown on profile, I will have lots of hunters going after me. Hidden what I am is part of Art of War. Only someone like "The sound of desert" could touch my heart. I have not met anyone can touch my heart yet. I wonder if I have no longer feel or just I am tired of the world full of lairs and players that on and off in my life. Coming back the unknown world and I am not sure if I ever meet that person again. I am really tired so maybe study Art of War would be the best time for me. Let the war begin.
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I suppose it depends on how much war one has seen in the past...as to whether they will open their heart for another battle.
I think you have a misconception. Lao Tzu's Art of War has made it into business practices sadly. It's about disinformation (lying) basically. I see no way that can lead to a good relationship--though I can see that it's led to many very high profile bad relationships and the current divorce rate. Good luck.
"The Art of War has remained relevant over the years because it is about strategy and tactics"

Strategy and tactics has nothing to do in a loving and working relationship imo.

Communication, affection, being there for someone is what makes a relationship working and worthwhile.

Calculating what is in for someone or what to get out is not a relationship I will be involved in.
@KN
You my dear lady took those words from my mind. I should reconsider my tactics in my attack, yes?
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Well said.
summercold = Which Art of War are you speaking of? The comic book written by Sun Tzu or the thick tome written by Jomini?

In any case people who try to manage their relationships with planned campaigns are usually recognized quickly as schemers and most people terminate any relationship with someone who has schemes involving them.
so it is not a good idea. scold
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