At least I have Me for 2022

What is it with new years that I am sick everytime they come. I have left behind all the disappointments 2021 has brought me. And in such a strange and unwelcome way, they have their own way of sneaking up.

Now, Im wallowing all by myself, clogged nose, fever, sorethroat and headache. No food in the fridge, no one to ask to get them for me either.

So I get up, put my big girl pants on and made coffee. I still got some bread from a few days ago. Hopefully no molds in them. Hahahahaha At least I have that.

Exes coming back, but I have no energy to even flirt a little with any of them. But surely i have the energy to rant about my newest frustration for 2022 in my comfy flannel wrap and messy bun seated in front of smokin hot coffee and toasted bread.

At least I have the silence of the room all to myself. At least I have my sound mind and the hope for tomorrow to get the things I need. At least I still have me.

Welcome 2022!

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Oh I have a crystal ball, it just doesn’t tell me anything.

I am starting to actually think that this year would be exactly the same as the previous when it comes to the limitations this pandemic has brought.

I myself am a realist. But I am also hopeful. Because this year, I have started to prioritize the things I should have prioritized years ago. This makes me a little more hopeful to bring even a small change from the previous months at least.

Its just amazing how the body manifests the internal turmoil the mind and spirit has.
@robplum

I suppose the affirmation will turn anybody into a robot...



wine
oh I dunno, positive thoughts create positive outcomes, you sow apple seed it won't grow banana

Dale Carnegie Quotes

"People rarely succeed unless they have fun in what they are doing."
"Take a chance! ...
"Today is life -- the only life you are sure of. ...
"Success is getting what you want. ...
"If you can't sleep, then get up and do something instead of lying there and worrying.
One of the most tragic things I know about human nature is that all of us tend to put off living. We are all dreaming of some magical rose garden over the horizon instead of enjoying the roses that are blooming outside our windows today.

If we think happy thoughts, we will be happy. If we think miserable thoughts, we will be miserable.
wave
I definitely agree with having happy thoughts happy disposition and miserable thoughts miserable disposition as well.

But sometimes b you can’t really just help it. I want to be miserable just for a few minutes in the safety of my room, I think that won’t hurt my entire life. crying
Why is anyone sick to see a new year when they are still breathing and see a new year?
thumbs up I love the new format of the blogs yay
Hey MissChelli, that's not the best start to the new year but i guess it can only get better for you.. I would look at the disappointments of 2021 as lessons in my life that need to be learned, but that's only my opinion...
Hope the year only gets better for you MissC.. wave
Believe me, I would rather be not sick and enjoy the celebrations left and right. However, its just unfortunate that I got sick. dunno
Hello Butch. As do I. I look at them as painful yet necessary. I cannot hide from them, might as well experience the extent of the pain. And live with it. Happy new year to you too wave


I have met some who were devoid of it despite their advanced age. As for my opinion, Although wisdom doesn’t comes with age, it most certainly comes to those who want it. wine
Good on ya MissC, bless those bad times and bless the people that bring on the lessons.. thumbs up
Yeah i dig it too and no down thumbs wave
My point of view more in specific...

Wisdom come with age and aging is includes plenty of experience,obvious there are those foolish enough that never in their lifetimes learn lessons from their past,hmm i suppose that's just human kind made that way or at the very least good chunk of it.

wine
When I say exes coming around i meant trying to initiate communication again. Not literally coming to my presence. And no it isn’t sign of having a good luck. I have let them ho for a reason or two. Some more grave than other. So, i am not flattered or lucky for them coming back.

I also just a dream about Celebrating only the end of a good year. For me being alive is enough to celebrate about. I might be sulking right now, but I wish to celebrate as well in my own way. Doesn’t mean i want to do them with fireworks and stuff. A small celebration will do.
Hang in there MC. Misery is temporary like everything else in life.


Happy New Year.


wave
Oh yeah....by the way, coffee is good. :)

and...you look cute in your new pic.
If you have so many admirers, why are you on this site? Do you want crowds of men communicating with you? So that you can increase the number of them doing your shopping and feeling sorry for you.
@CROWN

cheers cheers cheers cheers cheers cheers
Often times people forget to come down from their high and mighty horses....

wine
@crown and @happycampero

I am not on a mighty horse and I am not liking the tone the 2 of you are throwing at me. I have ll the right to want the things I want and to not want the things i di not want. I do not need to explain myself.

I never asked the 2 of you to come to my blog and comment. You came at your own free will and you are welcome. But if you both dislike me, by all means you are free to ignore me all you want.

Some people talk of manners like they are entitled to it.

I am dealing with a lot right now. I don’t need the 2 of you to understand and I certainly do not need your judgement.

Again, if you don’t like me, because it pretty feels personal now, by all means, ignore my blogs and ignore me altogether.
Happy New year to you to Johnny.

Yes, we all need some miserable moments to keep us grounded I guess. Not loving it, but necessary. wave teddybear
I'm not throwing at u anything...
Simply saying what i see happens with people on a dating site...

wine
You know to yourself what I mean. Not everything is what it seems. And because you think you are right, doesn’t make you right. Is it good manners to tag team with another gentleman and prey on me? Some kind of gentlemen. Or maybe you don’t. As you’ve said, wisdom comes with age. And you aren’t 95.
Calm down. I'm sure you're quite loveable really. You just need someone to take care of you and show a little tenderness.
I know myself i also know how interactions on dating sites go....
Which most of the times ain't roses....
Simple reason actually people do nto have the habit of actually speaking their minds,but.. prefer to avoid and take the easy way out...

Simple reality..that u obviously can't see coz i aren't a man...

wine
Miss Chelli. Thanks for viewing my profile and ticking the you like me box.
I'm not 95 but certainly i had a bit more experiences than u..
And wisdom come from experiences too mostly if u actually understand the past and CERTAINLY LEARN FROM IT!...which now days human kind has hard times to do that...

wine
Maybe you’re the one who needs to get off your high horse.
Was hoping to block you actually. But anyway. I can’t always get what I want.
I have no high horses since both feet are well glued on the ground...

As for blocking Crown guy u can do that on private messages "Block Button".
U also can delete all his comments and no idea how to do that...
Since i am not a geek on tech but if u ask around u may find the solution...

wine
I didn’t ask for your advice. Keep your suggestions to yourself. And leave me alone.
Sir Yes Sir!!

wine
Thank you Ken. If I were anywhere near, we'd have celebrated new years with a bottle. cheers
Dont be so negative.
2022 is far from finished and you might still be quite lucky, who knows?
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