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She’s also the one sympathising when he’s had a hard day, keeping the kids quiet when Daddy is working on a presentation, reminding him how much he loves bikes and suggesting he go for a spin to clear his head.
It’s exhausting and thankless and it’s a reason why many marriages end. No one wants to live with another overgrown child in the house when you thought you were getting an equal partner.
When they go their separate ways, she’s already used to doing all that stuff, except it’s actually easier now as she has fewer people to plan for. And he’s at a complete loss because he has to do stuff he hasn’t done in years and often he doesn’t even know he has to do it.
I was just sitting on my couch watching movie and just popped up on my head this quedtion
You got one now Pls check your mail
Let's see who will be the first gentleman to comment
It takes a lot of courage
for a woman to be that person they are.
I knew of some of your case.
Thanks for sharing
In my humble opinion which many marriages came to this point wherein couple struggle to keep them kicking is a given matter which shows that men in general or not to be fair
is the outcome of most broken marriage
an answer, depending on your experience or orientation.
an answer, depending on your experience or orientation.
But getting back to the question would mean differently
it's more equal than that, I'd say.
For good n bad, but no prob here what u describe.
Men know how to cook, do laundry,
change dipers (if she's into that lol) and actually know how to get to
the pharmacie or doctor, also for his kids.
I'm happy thou if women come out on top if they pulled all the weight before.
it's more equal than that, I'd say.
For good n bad, but no prob here what u describe.
Men know how to cook, do laundry,
change dipers (if she's into that lol) and actually know how to get to
the pharmacie or doctor, also for his kids.
I'm happy thou if women come out on top if they pulled all the weight before.
I think my place doesn't have to do with the question
That's a plus for men who is able to do that you'll never get lost
These things may be culturelle.
That applies in the big apple
Thhe right of the kid to sue his parents
This is just a question that needs your best opinion that's all
But having to adapt and do these things new makes people very unhappy. It's the much higher degree of change that belies the unhappiness of a divorced man. It's a lot more alienating to lose this much way of life.
I suspect you might be right about your statement in many cases....however, maybe not all. I really do not know...but to make the general statement you made, gives the impression that all women fair better than men do after a separation. With that said, having 100% (or all) of anything is very difficult to achieve. So with that logic, I will refer back to my opening sentence here.
To answer your question....I suspect it is probably because women have it a lot easier to find a replacement, compared to a man finding one.
So with that said....maybe immediately after a separation, women's mental state may remain more stable...if they find a new mate immediately. But, in the long term do they remain more stable? What I mean by that is....if they don't take time with being single for a while and assess what exactly lead up to the separation and their role they played in that....they will never learn from those past behaviors.
As much as people like to believe it was one person's fault or the other's...with the dissolution of a relationship....the fact is, both people in that relationship played a role in the breakup. If men become a bit unstable, remain single of a longer period than women....that is a great time for some introspection....to bring a much more stable self to the next future relationship. Thus....stabilizing the now unstable woman.
It started many years ago when men thought of women as property. In his mind he owned her just like a piece of land. When Americans were going out west to build a life they bought small pieces of land and sometimes a woman came along with it. It was a business deal, not falling in love.
Eventually he would learn to love her. If they divorced he not only lost her but he lost something that he owned.
In today's world when men and women divorce it is my opinion that the woman can move on easier than the man does. A man is hurt more deeply in a failed marriage. I'm not being callous when I say that. When a man loves a woman, really loves her, it comes from deep within his heart. In a divorce he feels defeated when he loses a woman that he loves.
So it doesn't surprise me that women are more stable after a divorce. He will continue to work and pay his bills but his heart is broken and he finds it difficult to move on to find love again.
It's not one's gender that makes them more or less stable, it's the individual, and perhaps their situation.
I've known many guys who've moved on from relationships and found more success and happiness in the next one, or who've found themselves happier being single and just dating now and then. I've known women who've done the same.
I can't recall it being more or less difficult or stable due to gender alone. It just depends on each person.
And there you go! There's my two cents on this blog subject. Err, my 200 cents now, due to inflation.
But having to adapt and do these things new makes people very unhappy. It's the much higher degree of change that belies the unhappiness of a divorced man. It's a lot more alienating to lose this much way of life.
And that brings several types of emotions to the forefront for a family, and the children involved are no different. Feelings of loss,anger, confusion, anxiety, and many others, all may come from this transition. Divorce can leave children feeling emotionally sensitive.
Yes I am aware from this question itself we cant avoid some other issues that would relate from it
I agree with you but something I just want to emphasize is the reality mostly in cases like this. But as you have mentioned either of the couple has their own reason why. Maybe their own way of coping from it.
I was just sitting on my couch watching movie and just popped up on my head this quedtion
too lazy to proof read... sorry... still the same.
It started many years ago when men thought of women as property. In his mind he owned her just like a piece of land. When Americans were going out west to build a life they bought small pieces of land and sometimes a woman came along with it. It was a business deal, not falling in love.
Eventually he would learn to love her. If they divorced he not only lost her but he lost something that he owned.
In today's world when men and women divorce it is my opinion that the woman can move on easier than the man does. A man is hurt more deeply in a failed marriage. I'm not being callous when I say that. When a man loves a woman, really loves her, it comes from deep within his heart. In a divorce he feels defeated when he loses a woman that he loves.
So it doesn't surprise me that women are more stable after a divorce. He will continue to work and pay his bills but his heart is broken and he finds it difficult to move on to find love again.
You've come to the conclusion which an eye opening to what is like to be in that situation
Thank you for that nice insight
A common denominator of a male species yes they do
And that I agree with you. By knowing some who went this stage I observe men hardly express their emotions and struggle to adapt post divorse
Yes maybe it does something to do with the coping mechanism
It's not one's gender that makes them more or less stable, it's the individual, and perhaps their situation.
I've known many guys who've moved on from relationships and found more success and happiness in the next one, or who've found themselves happier being single and just dating now and then. I've known women who've done the same.
I can't recall it being more or less difficult or stable due to gender alone. It just depends on each person.
And there you go! There's my two cents on this blog subject. Err, my 200 cents now, due to inflation.
Okay I'll give you 5 cents for a contribution on the topic
I can't say otherwise you're the experienced one Thank you my friend
Yeah expect from me another popped up topic. Thank you for dropping by