Dating requirements

When a man says he wants a woman " with a sense of humour " I think to myself avoid at all costs . Why ? Because it will mean he likes to tell racist sexest jokes that are offensive and if you're not laughing you've no sense of humour. He will no doubt have many other obnoxious behaviours that he's unwilling unable or simple too thick to want to change and if you don't laugh at his ignorant behaviour you won't be judged to have a sense of humour . Stay well clear of this guy who will also be homophobic xenophobic right wing and bullying of anyone he perceives as weaker while simpering to anyone( usually another male) who he perceives as the ideal .P.S. part of his problem is that he may be a closeted gay man who still goes to church every Sunday and is a pillar of the community . A bit extreme in my judgement . Maybe but I've met them they're real .and dating sites are full of them .