Our experience(s) in dating here at CS or anywhere
Maybe some of us on here have anything to share about our journey in finding the "one".Considering all the fake profiles, scammers they are called, what truly is our chances of finding him/her on this site? Or anywhere for that matter.
I have met and found whom I thought was the one 9 years ago here. Although our distance was more than 7,000 miles apart we didn't get discouraged because what we felt from the first skype was so strong and wonderful that we didn't think of any hurdles we had to face.
Anyways I went to his place about three times and he came to my place about two times. To cut the story short, for me, it was the most interesting, adventurous and wonderful part of my life.
I read somewhere that the difficulty of meeting a real partner here isn't as easy as meeting them in family gatherings, church or the conventional and normal introduction before the web. What's with all of those mentally crazy, drug addicts, or simply players that are not who they claim they are. Married pretending to be single, and more discouraging characters which by the time you find out, has already caused you a lot of emotional roller coaster.
Well for me, I am no longer looking. I'm way past that. But meeting good friends both male or female, to me is a plus.
What about you? Please feel free to share your stories if you want. Maybe we can all learn from it.
Note: I know about six couples who have met here, still married and happy. A couple from NZ and India, From Northern Thailand and England (my best friends, he passed away , blessed his soul). From Philippines and NZ, From NY and England, From France and CH, and also our very own Mimi from Malaysia now happily living in Nebraska. The first three couples I met them 8 years ago still very happily married.
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Ehmmm..... learned? Maybe best to look closer to home first,
I always started at the far end of the world
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This video just came to mind cos of the beach summer theme (otherwise unrealated)
Rammstein - Mein Land (Official Video)
This video is just so funny
This video just came to mind cos of the beach summer theme (otherwise unrealated)
Rammstein - Mein Land (Official Video)
This video is just so funny
I'm not really looking on the dating sites...but I am always looking offline
it's so hard to find an interesting female profile on dating sites and my experience...most women say very little on their profiles...so it's hard to get motivated about sending them a message
i must say i hate duckface photos on profiles and don't agree with women's children being in the photos..don't like the negativity and defensiveness in many women's profiles
after all i have said...i still think women are better at communicating than men and it's pure laziness...when women don't make the effort in their dating profiles.
too many women on dating sites...want to live upto societies trends...expectations and don't want to be opened minded about things they discuss.
I'm bored when i read many women's profiles and it takes a special type of woman to stand out
I'm not really looking on the dating sites...but I am always looking offline
it's so hard to find an interesting female profile on dating sites and my experience...most women say very little on their profiles...so it's hard to get motivated about sending them a message
i must say i hate duckface photos on profiles and don't agree with women's children being in the photos..don't like the negativity and defensiveness in many women's profiles
after all i have said...i still think women are better at communicating than men and it's pure laziness...when women don't make the effort in their dating profiles.
too many women on dating sites...want to live upto societies trends...expectations and don't want to be opened minded about things they discuss.
I'm bored when i read many women's profiles and it takes a special type of woman to stand out
I think alot of people use that line as an excuse for giving up and not trying hard enough to hold onto and keep someone they care for or love.
Witchy often times love is blind and those who love us the most are generally hardest on us the most. They see within us what we don't see in ourselves. And if you believe in God or whatever always consider the universe never gives us what we want but, it does gives us what we need.
We may wonder or question our love interests why they come into our lives and the love lesson and experience we are to have. IMO it's the only way for whoever created us and our understanding of self as many are our mirrors.
Often times we don't want to see that reflection and we push them away. If we keep getting the same mirrors then it's suggesting we must change our ways.
you need a good shake man if you really believe that.
Now if you were referring to parents and children it would be entirely different but between lovers/partners tut-tut no can do, well not in my books anyway...JMO.
But like you said... love is blind
what's with the mirrors
Bin him I say.
Perhaps boys and girls attitudes and emotions need to be refreshed from time to time in understanding one another.
Perhaps this guy can offer some ideas.
and I'm even more certain he'd appreciate I
didn'tdon't either.Perhaps boys and girls attitudes and emotions need to be refreshed from time to time in understanding one another.
Perhaps this guy can offer some ideas.
himemSounds to me like you've escaped a nag .... good for you
I'm not really looking on the dating sites...but I am always looking offline
it's so hard to find an interesting female profile on dating sites and my experience...most women say very little on their profiles...so it's hard to get motivated about sending them a message
i must say i hate duckface photos on profiles and don't agree with women's children being in the photos..don't like the negativity and defensiveness in many women's profiles
after all i have said...i still think women are better at communicating than men and it's pure laziness...when women don't make the effort in their dating profiles.
too many women on dating sites...want to live upto societies trends...expectations and don't want to be opened minded about things they discuss.
I'm bored when i read many women's profiles and it takes a special type of woman to stand out
Hmmmmm one can only wonder what notes that are taken.
I'm sure it's not musical.
Interesting blog and reading the comments.
If I were to write all my "dating" stories, I would be writing till the cows come home.
Oh, but there are no cows here!
Hmmmmm one can only wonder what notes that are taken.
I'm sure it's not musical.
Hmmmmm one can only wonder what notes that are taken.
I'm sure it's not musical.
I've written songs about you.
You are my muse
Interesting blog and reading the comments.
If I were to write all my "dating" stories, I would be writing till the cows come home.
Oh, but there are no cows here!
You're the creme de la creme mi lady.
You're the creme de la creme mi lady.
Yes, quite a few have but....what can I say?
Most left with their tail between their legs (no pun intended)
Btw.. I don't kiss and tell.
I've written songs about you.
You are my muse.
Really? How beautiful of you. There was a girl I think you know all too well that was once my muse with poetry. I wonder what became of her these days?
Perhaps she is sitting by a distant sea pondering songs of eternal ethereal ideas rather blissfully?
I've written songs about you.
You are my muse.
Really? How beautiful of you. There was a girl I think you know all too well that was once my muse with poetry. I wonder what became of her these days?
Perhaps she is sitting by a distant sea pondering songs of eternal ethereal ideas rather blissfully?
Yes, quite a few have but....what can I say?
Most left with their tail between their legs (no pun intended)
Btw.. I don't kiss and tell.
I am not sure exactly how long I've been on this website. Maybe I'm here with different profile names from 2015 or 2016. There are some sour and sweet memories on this website.
Despite my poor English, I tried to remained connected to blogs and forums. Talked to many people in private mail too. But I didn't meet anyone personally. Some considered me good, some considered me bad.
Overall this website is a good companion for my loneliness. I have no hope to meet someone personally, but I am happy with blogs and forums.
I am not sure exactly how long I've been on this website. Maybe I'm here with different profile names from 2015 or 2016. There are some sour and sweet memories on this website.
Despite my poor English, I tried to remained connected to blogs and forums. Talked to many people in private mail too. But I didn't meet anyone personally. Some considered me good, some considered me bad.
Overall this website is a good companion for my loneliness. I have no hope to meet someone personally, but I am happy with blogs and forums.
I'm sure there's a lot of smiles going through our face as we reminisce them good memories. Tgen again can also bring us down with sadness as it didn't turn out the way we would have loved it.
But it's alright, we move on and welcome every bit of possibilities.
I've dated a few from this site.
And met a few more.
I still have some friendly contacts.
But I think the last new meeting is already 3 years ago.
I should restart.
I'm happy to hear there are other good stories.
I've dated a few from this site.
And met a few more.
I still have some friendly contacts.
But I think the last new meeting is already 3 years ago.
I should restart.
I'm happy to hear there are other good stories.
And still looking and haven't given up.
Well if you feel like sharing anything that'd be a bonus on this blog. Otherwise, it's truly a good feeling to see you around.
like a fishing line with bait on the hook....you have to take a bite...to discover if it is real or not
Yes, quite a few have but....what can I say?
Most left with their tail between their legs (no pun intended)
Btw.. I don't kiss and tell.
There's one special character who keeps saying that he doesn't deserve me!!!
There's one special character who keeps saying that he doesn't deserve me!!!
like a fishing line with bait on the hook....you have to take a bite...to discover if it is real or not
He's just an idiot!
Our "friendship" was never meant to be anything else.
But... he's got sooooo many friends that he can afford to be picky!
He's just an idiot!
Our "friendship" was never meant to be anything else.
But... he's got sooooo many friends that he can afford to be picky!
What about the voice Lee?
I need a voice to your lovely pic?