Attracting younger men…
I have always had the ‘problem’ of attracting younger men, but only because I look and think/act younger than my actual age. As such, all but 2 of my past relationships/s*xual encounters (not that many), which includes my marriage, were with younger men.The thing was, what they expected of me and I of them, didn’t mesh well enough to keep the attraction going for very long (especially since I’m not easily impressed and get bored quickly).
Crossing 55 made me determined to only form personal relationships with older men, whose future expectations/outlook on life were more in line with mine, and with whom I could fulfil the need for meaningful companionship.
Idealistic? Maybe. Pragmatic? I think so. Achievable? I certainly hope so. Cheers
Comments (26)
If you're not fully developed at that age ...well (will never be).
It certainly is very important to be on the same page in life
especially at your age as there is no more time to waste.
My 3 sons are in 50,s so anyone younger to me would be a no no.
Someone who does not work and have time to be together with similar interest is more important.
If you're not fully developed at that age ...well (will never be).
It certainly is very important to be on the same page in life
especially at your age as there is no more time to waste.
My 3 sons are in 50,s so anyone younger to me would be a no no.
Someone who does not work and have time to be together with similar interest is more important.
And you shouldn't be young enough to be my son (or nephew).
Getting the job done is what counts, not so?
Good lord, but when will men ever stop hitting on us
But seriously, a day a time will come when they no longer do
then we'll have A/the REAL problem.
Whatever my personal views....
its not a problem till you make it so
its not a problem till you make it so"
its not a problem till you make it so"
Hi CW, ......that's so true.
A good day to you there Di
A good day to you there Di
We definitely think alike GG...younger men can't easily fulfil that need, perhaps because they're still maturing and have may concerns about making a living, building a career, starting a family, etc. A retired or aged professional may have already experienced and achieved all that, and have learned a lot that helped mould them into more stable, wiser men (hopefully).
See you when I see you, girl.
We definitely think alike GG...younger men can't easily fulfil that need, perhaps because they're still maturing and have may concerns about making a living, building a career, starting a family, etc. A retired or aged professional may have already experienced and achieved all that, and have learned a lot that helped mould them into more stable, wiser men (hopefully).
See you when I see you, girl.
You're welcome GG
I think you look like a teacher.
Did you fancy any of your teachers?
I think you look like a teacher.
Did you fancy any of your teachers?
Anyhoo, I don't really think that it's mostly a student/teacher thing (even though I've had students express a 'fancy' for me on a few occasions). I do believe it may also be the fact that I'm 'slim', 'petite' and a bit 'shy', which makes me appear much younger than expected.
We watch TV and read and are aware of all that is new. And mostly, dont give a rats behind. We are not old fuddy duddies. Well, most of the time.
Age does matter when too far a span between. Oh!! What is the name of that actor on Gunsmoke? Remember when a Mcdonalds burger was fifty cents and you walked in, then went out to the car to eat it?
What do you mean you dont know how to drive a stick? You call THAT music..give me a break.
No I do NOT want to go for a run. How can you stand to watch that dumb show?
Conversation becomes a dual between your memories and theirs. No thanks. Hard enough for those with kids to deal with those differences.