Why

Wow.. Wasn't expecting that Answer....

I think that love overrides all that but ..I'm not gone lie I was in a relationship with this lawyer one time and I kinda felt bad I couldn't do more for her with my personal trainer salary!

Life would be no fun with ought the leasons its part of growth

Well a woman won't have a man who has less power than she does. And in the long-term the power that counts is moneypower. Maybe in the short term they will be with you because you're more confident than she is, a greater power in the social sense, but in the long-term it defaults to moneypower and social status. Exceptions exist but rarely, it's about as rare as woman being with a short man.

It is the genes of men who would win in a state of nature raised by the beta male fathers of civilization. Alphas are normally too incorrigible to actually be a success but they like to put that lack of self-consciousness into the affluence of the beta middle classes.

And a part of this is a reflection of the big society. Most alphas have been kicked out of the top and replaced by a super alpha like Simon Cowell. And if alphas don't win, they lose they do not come in the middle they are in this sense the opposite of women. What that means is that most men who are mentally tough are at the bottom of society. In smaller more primitive groups this would not be so much the case as there are, relatively speaking, a greater ratio of leaders to followers. You'd have one leader leading eight people rather than one over a million.

Essentially that's what the bad boy is. Those who would have been that one over eight in the days before one over a million. He's an underachieving alpha male as the lion's share of alpha males are in the modern world. It's alpha at the bottom, beta in the middle, super alpha at the top.

Where with women it's shoot for the moon you'll land amongst the stars. Even if you lose you'll be alright, society has your back. For men it's shoot for the moon and crash into the sea in a big ball of flames. If it goes wrong, it's on you.

And actually that's the best chance a poor husband has. Why does he have less money than his wife? Because he keeps crashing into the sea in a big ball of flames. Crashing in a such a way like a cancer survivor, to have been through such a harrowing experience that you just cannot get upset in the same way. The trivial problems of the day mean nothing because of crashing into the sea in a big ball of flames.