come to God and God come to you
Believing and obeying God means you come to God and so God comes to you .There is no life without God. God gives life.
So you need God.read new testament of bible to know some truth to lead you to be saved.
You need love God with all heart..., and love your neighbours as your self.neighbours are all people.
So if you do this,it will lead you to eternal life.
Don,t listen wrong teaching or wrong thoughts,that will lead you to sin and sin to suffer.
Listen good thoughts,and good teaching that lead you to life and happiness.
God bless.