What do i have to do or change on my profile to get noticed?

Ive worked on my profile numerous times to make changes to improve my chances of finding my new love but i end up with nothing
Is it because I am on disability?
Is it because I don’t want anymore children?
Is it because i smoke?
What?
Please tell me what I need to do to get noticed
I’ve been on this site for awhile with absolutely no response. confused
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Hi Yes, commas would be a good start otherwise you seem like a nonstop freight train
Remove your income can be discussed later when and if asked.
Same with your disability tell after you made contact.
Try to quit smoking as this is a no-no for a lot of people. I stopped cold turkey 2 packs a day.

I learned that if you make up your mind to quit you can do it.

Don't give up and don't give up on meeting outside of a dating site.
I tried to PM you but could not do so.
You could PM me if you like..............................jenny...............wave
I don’t think so regarding quitting smoking
Smoking calms me down for I have anxiety disorder. If the woman can’t accept it oh well her loss not mine
Try to find someone who also smokes that would solve that problem right?..............wave
I can't see how it can be the woman's loss.??doh
Passive smoking is just as bad!

So, if you met the ideal "perfect" woman who's a non smoker, it would be Her loss, and not YOURS?

This kind of attitude will get you nowhere!

Maybe a nice woman will calm you down.
There are other ways to treat anxiety disorder.
You may be trying too hard. If you're happy with yourself, don't change who you because you'll be miserable, and I'm sure you can do with out that part. If you go this route, it's a good chance it'll take a little longer to find that right person. But I'm sure you want to be happy instead of making changes all because you want to find someone. Is it really sacrificing your happiness?
I couldn't agree with Dan more! wave
Thanks Kal. wave

As I have no intention to change people and make them give up their unhealthy habits, I just stay away from them.
I select my friends very carefully.
You have invited comments regarding your profile and search for a partner many times in the past.

People respond with helpful suggestions but you don't respond to them.

Unfortunately, disability is not appealing to others on dating sites, harsh but true.

Your best bet would be to connect with disability services in your community and participate in social activities and groups which they provide.

You may then get opportunities to mix with people who share your hopes, goals and aspirations handshake
Mention that you're happy to smoke outside, don't mention that you don't drive.

And I see two photographs on your profile not eight, what are the extra six for? These are duplicates, my friend, unnecessary. You want to take a look at your profile and get rid of as much as possible.. 80% gone, banished to the aether.
If you want my advice highlight a few things and tell us more about them. Tell us about your love of art and the fact that you're a man willing to cry is implied.
And remember that it's less about having common interests and more about you having an interest, an enthusiasm that prevents lying around the house wearing the same old trousers. You don't have to be what she wants you to be, but you do have to be if you get what I mean.

The camping could be the thing you do with the boys that she has absolutely no interest in whatsoever, but is nevertheless glad that you spend time with gregarious company.
You've been here before asking the question about finding a soulmate.
People gave you advise and it appears you didn't accept much of the advice.

Start with one or two photos, preferred outdoors and a nice surrounding.
Get someone to shoot the photo from a distance. Don't do a selfie.

Lots of paragraphs of who you are and want you want hasn't worked so far.
Try the opposite. Say less and see if it betters your chances.
For example: Great guy seeks a great girl. 30-55 living in Chicago area.

Occupation: retired (nothing more needs to be said)


Keep in mind, while new members join every week, most of the members here have been here for many years. Even a good fisherman has to change his bait if the fish aren't biting.
Thank you for your advice. You may be right
Ill just go through out my life and live it the best I can
Just got done reading my profile
Its not too long c
Sorry for who said “ its too perfect “
Its the way I was brought up and i dont sugar coat anything
Sorry you feel like this
Well, what would get you noticed are 1. your finances and 2. your looks in that order. You could write that you're a serial killer on your profile. If either or both those criteria are 'right', then it wouldn't matter. dunno
Don't change a thing.
If anyone has an interest in you despite all the red flags, they will contact you.

Be like the rest of us on CS. Enjoy the blogs and forums and if it happens, it happens.
this is a Singles site, perhaps try a dating site
Ha!
Only solution I can think of is let the word out that you are a generous billionaire. Bet you that will change your situation.
Oh yes as for the lies, don't feel bad, ju8st about everyone on the blogs are not who they say they are.cheers
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