Head Wrecking!

Getting down and personal with this blog but I'm hoping someone could shed some light on an individual's (my ex's) behaviour.

So the story goes;

My ex and I were together for two years. I broke up with him last month due to a number of reasons, one of those being I had a niggling feeling he was up to no good behind my back. He swore to me on many occasions he would never cheat or do anything to hurt me.

For the few days following our breakup, he made attempts to get me back but not much effort, he was nonchalant and on the whole seemed like he could take it or leave it. By the end of that week I found out he had indeed been cheating on me, however I kept it to myself until I texted him after 3 weeks to inform him that I knew and I then proceeded to block/delete him in every which way I could.

What I know for certain and don't need clarification on is that he doesn't want me back and I don't want him back, but I don't understand some of his behaviour since;

E.g. Keeping our profile picture for five weeks afterwards? Is this a way of portraying to the public that he is respectful of the relationship we had, when it is far from the truth? He has since changed his main profile picture but our picture is still on display on his page.

Today I arrived home to a delivery, it was a box returning some of my daughter's things which I had left at his place, and also containing a Christmas present for my daughter. At first, I felt he was trying to hurt me returning them a few days before Christmas but after giving it some thought, the timing of returning the items makes sense when he wanted to send an Xmas gift. There was no note, apologising for any of his behaviour and he didn't return any of my belongings. In his defence, I didn't leave much only a few small travel appliances and nightwear, but could he have not returned those? I'm guessing he has discarded my belongings.

If you have wronged someone who loved the bones of you and only did good by you, why not own up, apologise and do the right thing?