Just a small rant on myself.

I didn't really get any answers on a poll I asked about a few weeks ago. It was based on the topic of height within a relationship, if it mattered. It sounds funny yes, but in reality to me it's a problem at times. Being my height ( about 5'1) and overall size in comparison to someone I date is very noticeable and somewhat weird. But I can't help that of course. While dating or just hanging out, I just hate the obvious questions or physical actions that come from others, most of the time strangers. Idk, it's just embarrassing at times and overall hateful. If only people would get over it and mind there own business, or actually have manners and not ask stupid questions or not want to do stupid things to make me embarrassed. I don't know, I'm just somewhat ranting lol.
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Didn't seem to bother prince much.

One of his favorite comments

"People say I'm wearing heels because I'm short. I wear heels because the women like 'em."
Nice to see 'ya!
Happy Easter
a little late
but it's a step
into Springtime.
Very interesting, though I wear heeled boots it doesn't make much of a difference lol. But I guess it's about confidence in the end.
Well thanks for that, it's more of an issue inperson at times, while dating or hanging out.
Thanks so much, and same to you.
OK, found the poll about Goths.
An hour old, 41+ lady
thumbs up
18-41 guy
thumbs up
18 guy
thumbs up

100% 3 for 3
And it takes time as polls are the
slowest conversation spots.
Well in public that would go one of two ways...
Either way, use to your advantage.
I'm sorry what about the poll ? I'm confused about the numbers you wrote.
Albeit the poll numbers total but it is a wide demography all in your favor..
The most favorable one.

Sorry at this time of night my internet is poor.
Maybe best to reload.
"I'm sorry what about the poll ? I'm confused about the numbers you wrote."

Don't feel bad everyone is confused what patsy and agent Bob write

doh doh
But it is predictable and find your comfortable assertion, whether it's humor or take those questions and answer them rapid fire without the awkward expectation it's inevitable.
I get you on that, but it does get very annoying at times, so I'm not always in a great deal of happiness seeing it happens so often to me. And like I said alot of overall actions done to me by others make the experience even worse.
Give yourself permission to say straight up to someone I'm not going there right now, not feeling it ..
You know the words that say you are available but control when that occurs
Being proactive takes some sting out of it.Plus you develop respect for your boundaries by choice not defensiveness
I hope your ranting helps, I can just shush and roll with it.

cool
At least our comments weren't removed by moderators.
uh oh
(Like the other person that commented here had done
to his own blog ).


G'Night and peaceful dreams.
I understand, I just have developed a defensiveness over the years about it and it's others who don't let it go, I hear it everyday almost. But I should be used to it by now, I can't help it at times.
I'll chip in with some honest perspective. I'm 6'2' and hate being somewhat tall. I'm big boned too so I'm kind of a lummox. I am very shy also, and don't want to stick out in a crowd.

I've learned over the years, I should never feel self-conscience about my looks. It took a long time but I'm starting to get over it. I had melanoma on my face and had surgery a few years ago. It left my face scarred up on the left side, but it's not noticeable in my picture. I decided I don't care and I'm going to face the world.

You are in control of how you feel about yourself. Be the best you can be, and everything will fall into place for you. Never worry about what others think.handshake
If you make a good enough impression on someone.....
They'll recheck their MUST HAVE list.. typing
laugh laugh laugh

...... Sorry Bob bouquet hole
wave mbken
Always nice crossing paths with you.
Thanks GothSonny for returning to rant about yourself.
We all have those needs.
Sometimes having a heart-to-heart is preferred but when it is about those
external pressures you got to unload as much as possible to anywhere it won't pass harm on.It will Inevitably occur still but we all see the positives about your healthy need to rant here.

Maybe it will occur to some that they can be less critical about others or insensitive.I know I need those reminders to be kind.
Hi Gothsonny,

I don't know about the poll, I'm new here.
I don't think you should worry about what people say. I stopped caring a long time ago. I do what I want, whenever, wherever and however I want, that's self confidence!

It feels good to rant from time to time, and this place seems to be perfect for ranting
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I find it strange people comment. I'm 5ft 0, so obviously everyone I've gone out with has been taller and noone has ever commented. The only thing I have picked up on is there's usually comments if a lady is taller than her man. Honesty, I'd ignore silly comments and not let it affect your relationships thumbs up
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