Life's big picture
As I ponder what it is that each gender wants in a partner, I cannot help but think that there are going to be inevitable conflicts within the opposite gender we seek.Are we destined by life to be partners? I would say yes. We need to reproduce to be life...otherwise life itself would no longer exist. In order to create life, we need to partner up.
So therefore, we need to pick a partner we wish or want to procreate with.
For a woman, she desires security. That could be a tall guy. That could be a wealthy guy. That could be a well adapted socially intelligent guy. That might be a physically strong guy. The list goes on. Many (if not all) women want all of these traits in the guy they choose to reproduce with.
The problem is, God did not design all men in such a way to satisfy all women. If all men were tall, there would be no tall men. There needs to be short men in order to have tall men. If all men were physically strong, there would be no strong men. There needs to be physically weak men in order for there to be strong men. .....and so on and so on.
The same can be said about men's desires with the woman he wants to reproduce with....she is to be young, she is to be healthy looking (hair & breasts). She is to be of an agreeable nature. She is to be nurturing.
Not all women are these traits.
So why did God create such variations of humans?
Maybe the answer to that question has to do with Life's Big Picture.
Perhaps our purpose.
Remember, we need to partner up to have life in the first place. Need....
Maybe we are here to test our ego, to test our vanity, to test our level of selfishness.....how much will we bend to our personal desires? Will we bend to our personal desires to the point where we will eliminate ourselves...deny life; thus, deny ourselves?
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Men can be unique!
I would not just isolate it to men.
Both men and women have predictable natures to themselves.
These natures can be exploited....exploited to a point where both men and women become less than favorable to each other.
Therefore, it is not just men, but both men and women.
Okay, we are at the point where it is both men and women.
How did we get to this point today...where men have issues with women and women have issues with men?
Did it just occur randomly within men and women on an individual level? Or, did it occur on more of a widespread level...say for example, through messages we received from others? ...oh, say through our television screens, books, or internet?
How do television screens, books, and internet get into our lives? We as just regular people were given these. By who? Is it fair to say, whoever gave us this stuff, has a certain level of control over it? At very minimum, the ability to spread a message through these forms of information we consume?
I think us humans are fairly simple. We want to live...simple. For us to live, we need to be in an environment that allows us to live. An environment of love, acceptance, tolerance, and prosperity is easier to survive in than one of hate, chaos, and division.
"Settling" = unhappy relationship for men and women.
The essence of this whole blog.
"Settling" = unhappy relationship for men and women.
The essence of this whole blog.