What I am not Looking for
I have noticed that after 7 years of looking for that perfect mate to spend my rocking years with isn't gonna happen. You sign up on these things in some sort of hope that you will connect with the right person. But I realize that I have more negatvie than positive on these sites. Things I am not looking for in a person. Well it is one that you write that hidden poem or lyric about and that it constantly occurs in several forms at different times. I have not been able to find that perfect 10 in my eyes to spend my last 10.00 on or that 30.00 per month man of emails and pictures of so made up dream. Hey I am a woman seeking a relationship not another child I have three of them and I am not looking for a father figure seeing my is dead and GOD above. So I do not want to be the reason why someone left their marriage or separated from life. No one ever informs me about anything they think I have esp AND can't them things so they dont have to tell me in person. I swear they think I can read their minds. Well they should read mine cause what I write is basically all that I am. I am not into credit cards but i like going out of town to the beach and enjoy the ocean air. I am a person worth more than a atm card of cash and broken promise of emotion. I am past the child bearing stage and I have been trying to move on since 06. We all have our problems but man getting someone in my area without having a drug problem or felony is not easy. I am a mom and I spoil and mother when I want to. I care in somethings and I dont in others. I am Catholic so I do not want to rush into anything bad. I am trying to stay away from the Carpenter construction worker with drinking problems. Been there done that. I blog a lot of things and try to write on different subjects. I would like to know what " I want to read you" means.I would love spend my holidays one year with someone new in my life and I would like to actually have some sort of real relationship. Cause right now it's just a email here and there with an opportunity for friendship.
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I can understand where your coming from I have given up as well I will be changing my profile to just friends, as I believe, that he will find me when the time is right, so hang in there and stay with, the blogs and forums , and just have fun and enjoy the ride, I think that is more fun then getting into a huff trying to find, what is not there for us yet , I wish you all the best hugs
Carol
In view of what I've read throught many different forums, they all basically say the thing. I'm looking for MR or MRS Right. They are not here. To meet someone who is, you need to get out and find that person. Most of the time, he/she is standing right there before your eyes. It's just most people have narrow vision and they only see what they want to see. I am included within that realm. So, if you truly want to find that person, most of the time it will just happen. Seeking him/her is a thing or instant that happens in life and if you seclude yourself from meeting others in life, then the possiblilities narrow tremendously. What is needed is to get out of the house and start meeting people. It's not to say you do not do that, its just that most people complain that they are not meeting others here online. That is true. Meeting people here is like pulling teeth from a wild lion. Just won't happen. If it does, it's 1 in a million that does happen.
I am not one to give advice nor am I one to say what is true and what is not. You take what you can from what is said and use that to your benefit.
Be happy and smile for today is a new day and this is the only day that we live. Tomorrow brings new things but it isn't today. Yesterday are just memories and it isn't today. Grasp today and live the now for it is the only moment in time we have.
Get out and start meeting men if that is what you are looking for. Join a pool league or bowling league or something that men do. There is where you will find Mr. Right. Not here.
Enjoy and Be Happy.
Jeraxle