WHAT SHOULD I DO?
i finished with a guy a a month ago,but he told me he couldnt go on not because of me ,he wated to write me a letter to tell me why,im still waitin for it but feel hes pullin me back in again,i still care for him even though it didnt work.hes got a lot of demons from the past.He told me i will always b in his heart,now he wont answer my mails or texts askin me how he is?as the last one i wished him well and to b happy,he replied HAPPY?U GOT A B KIDDING?...now hes not talkin 2 me?i need 2 let him go for good but cant now.......ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
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If it never worked & you finished with him, then it is something he needs to deal with, and you are better off having no contact with him. I'm pretty sure we all have met people who we thought things would work out great, but then, for whatever reason, we change our minds and you learn to move on, it is just another part of life, however when we do meet that person who is prefect for us, it means the search has been worthwhile..
I guess it will happen to any of us!
I cant say anything for sure, I Honestly dont know what to do myself!!
Good luck to you!
I was dumped last November but she still texted and called me on occasion. She said she still wanted to be "my friend" but it seemed to me she was always trying to find out how I really felt.
One of my friends asked me was I also going to be friends with her new boyfriend? I said Hell No.
I decided then that I would no longer play the game of grieving abandoned boyfriend and terminated all contact. I feel much better that I have drawn a line in the sand and that I am no longer allowing myself to be used by an ex lover to validate their own desirability