negatitivity towards black men

this is really disappointing to find on many dating sites and outside, you have profiles asking for cacausian when they are not that themselves, you should love for destiny not because of the persons ethinicity grow up guys love for all.....





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So what? People have a right to choose based on personal preference. I do not see how that is negativity towards black men. I have a preference towards Asian women but that does not mean I think negative towards white women. I was married to a caucasian woman for 15 years. Then after I divorced I became employed with a company that had a lot of Asian girls employed. I began to notice them more and liked what I seen. So my preference changed but that has nothing to do with negativity.
I say people have a right to be happy. If choosing a partner from another race helps facilitate that happiness then I am all for it.
Don't worry my friend.!!

It's only a matter of taste..!!

Some women like white men, others like black men..
It depends of many reasons.
cheers cheers handshake
So what? People have a right to choose based on personal preference. I do not see how that is negativity towards black men. I have a preference towards Asian women but that does not mean I think negative towards white women. I was married to a caucasian woman for 15 years. Then after I divorced I became employed with a company that had a lot of Asian girls employed. I began to notice them more and liked what I seen. So my preference changed but that has nothing to do with negativity.
I say people have a right to be happy. If choosing a partner from another race helps facilitate that happiness then I am all for it.

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its matter of peronal taste.has nothing to do with race or color.personally ,i like more white women , but i never say never to others.dont think like that.mast of the people dont care anymore ab those things.its a whole new world out there , comparing to the past decades.handshake cheers
hi mak&demi,
Why i have this feeling that u have the same taste?? Lol
Coffee??

Mr yellow,
I think its not a kind of negativity..just like what my friends said above..
Its their chance to choose so they put it like that,,,

Ex..my preference: any one as long as human...but lots of E.T. emailed me... Lol

.i have black mens friends too!

Cheers, want some coffee too?
Mr Yellow-

Im pretty sure I recall you posting on another blog that you would not date outside of your race......so isnt that hypocritical?
unresolved issues from ur past does not provide u permission to take it out on others, ur thoughts suggest...popcorn u need 2 understand their is no color and those that have an agenda with color with dating sites, i see that u have an issue, been burned or kindly screwed over.......nicely i say...giggle honestly get over it, cuz we all good, and those that arent....avoid......dancing
bananahi mak&demi,
Why i have this feeling that u have the same taste?? Lol
Coffee??

cause we r greeks?? maybe?? but i can say u have some of our taste.r u greek too??peace bouquet comfort yay
unresolved issues from ur past does not provide u permission to take it out on others, ur thoughts suggest... u need 2 understand their is no color and those that have an agenda with color with dating sites, i see that u have an issue, been burned or kindly screwed over.......nicely i say... honestly get over it, cuz we all good, and those that arent....avoid......
ms smitten ,u r the most kind person i found on cs.i have read u writings here and u r always polite ,even in cases u had to be less.always a pleasure to read ur staff.bouquet wave
As I can see, all the good boys and girls meet again in this blog !!!
I will start to believe in fate...!!!
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No one should have to feel guilty for desiring a partner of a certain race or any other physical traits. BUT, I do find it in poor taste to specify a specific race in a profile using direct words. I can see how it would come across racist and hurt some feelings. But look at it this way guy, I've read many profiles where woman say something like, I don't want any skinny guys, or I only like hunks or I don't like bald men. We can all be put out over comment that directly exclude us especially if we find the person of interest to us.

If you feel hurt by this, just think of some woman who are overweight and guys automatically exclude them because of it.

I'd suggest tougher skin and I would also be glad you can see how shallow a person is right off the bat, so you don't waste your time on them.

But looks do matter. Physical appearances matter. No sense in trying to hide that but no sense in hurting peoples feelings for something that is out of their control. I think it boils down to character. If they are heavily specifying a race in their description, I'd be glad to know that, not because of what race they are looking for, but because you know what type of person they are. Very insensitive.
Just prefrence!
Nothing more!
jack
Leave it to Jack to make it simple for us. I agree Jack.
again mop...rolling on the floor laughing jello getz u now where unless u want to roll around in it....rolling on the floor laughing fate has nothing to do with this, other than man u are bored...pointers, i can needle point, knit, and hell, i can even crochet....so to pass ur time rather been an a**, me helpz you.....rolling on the floor laughing ok that was funnnnnnnnnneeeeeeeee.grin
2 alf....oh ya...sweet.....teddybear
Read between the lines a bit more and you'll find quite a few of them are scammers.

As for the real world........

dunno

each to their own I suppose.
just i can..............banana
dont have to read b/t the lines...trust me... dancing maybe im the scammer, CS officials....dunno or just havin funzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.........................grin
I would'nt want a woman to like just because I'm a Black man. Just like me because, i am man first.We all should know who attracts us more. With me it's no preference I am like captain Kirk,I dont care if she's green.Lol just as long as we respect each other.
oh for gods sake its nothing racial its the laws of attraction
lets b realistic so if i want to avoid being called racist i have to date someone of colour some of my best friends are black im just not attracted to them it doesnt make me a bad person it just means i kinow my own mind and just cause some dont like it doent mean i should change it
how many men dont like redheads how many dont like a girl whos taller does that make them prejudice too and before anyone jumps they are examples
and look at it thi way at least if its on their profile you arent wasting your time and they dont have to make an excuse its called honesty dont trash people for that
Just prefrence!
Nothing more!
Jack


hi yellow, its just about preference not colour......... i like black girls sooo much that prefer dating them, that does not mean that i hate white girls its all about preference

am a black guy, and i dont feel inferior to NOBODY, its all about preference bro........ its just like going to a supermarket, and u see sth u like and u hate d other, its all about preference.....

i have many white female friends who prefer black guys to whites, its there choice. To be frank anybody whether black or white that is still colour sensitive, is centuries behind present........

I BET U, NO BLACK MAN FEEL INFERIOR TO NOBODY, WE ARE SPECIAL MEHN.....

ITS JUST ABOUT PREFERENCE ..............
Mr. Yellow it is a matter of taste! for most.
and take it as a compliment you chocolate people have a prestigious super sexy behaviour and some might be afraid of not matching that.
There is a saying:

Once you go chocolate you will never go vanilla!
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Mrs. Browmn
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2 each its own
We all bleed the same
wouldn't u say......
Thank you for your logical views which I agree, the point is not black men not getting love, its about specificaly just going for someone because of their race is what I do not get, if it is about a preference then that makes a whole lot more sense....
Why doesnt your profile say "any" then if you have a race specific problem? Preference is personal, as a man told me once, "opinions are like a**holes, we all have one!" Id love to date a black woman or an asian woman and im Caucasian, i think their beautiful! smitten
exactly. I will say again that this post makes no sense to me because you stated in other blogs, even one of your own, that you will not date outside of your race...so its okay for you to be biased and selective, but others cannot be?

so why would you expect everyone else to feel the same as you and not want to date outside of their race? How is that negativity towards black men? That doesnt even make sense. Isnt that more like your negativity towards other races than your own?

So, really your mad because black women dont want to date black men....or more specifically maybe you looked at someones profile you liked and found that you werent qualified?

So what. Really. How many times can we bring this topic up on this site. roll eyes
for all the stupid white men who post your stupid comments about black men, you know for a fact on the down low the white women love our long big black d*ckbanana
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