The picky, the loneliest!

Gues its ok to be picky with food and not potential life partners. Here is a good example. I only date white men coz I refuse to do blacks. This alone closes all other channels of me being happy as It may be that dating a certain black man could make me more happier, I dont know. Why do we people do it? Why do we never date all people, give them a chance to show us who they are and run if we want to afterwards? Why do we put ourselves against failure and heartaches with our unrealistic searches? This is why the picky people are forever lonely coz their ideal partners don't exsist in their time zones!
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Hm, in my opinion, all of us are picky (or just not) for a certain reason.

- Some might prefer certain kind of (wo)man, because of most common stereotypes connected to them.
- There might be some experience/memories we have in mind, when we see people of different ethnical origin, which remind us of comfortable feeling and good times we once had with one of them.
- On the other hand, bad experience/memories or negative stereotypes would lead us to avoid others.


But, as well, somehow I believe that deep inside of us, we already know, who it will be. And because of that we maybe instinctively become picky to make it easier to find the special one for us.


So, in the end, I'd say...
it might become really difficult to find anyone,
but exactly that makes it easier to find the right one.


Just a guess...
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