Proudly marry the stranger
I am in full support of it. How many times have people dated a lover for many years only to be married for days? I know of a hand full. Marrying a total stranger you have met for a month will work, when ever you feel like calling it quits the thought of your marriage will work magic as a bonder. It will keep you on the track to success. You don't belive it? Try it and see
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Either you win, or you lose.!!!
I'm just foucusing to the fact, that long time lovers, are seperated after they get married.
I believe that the two lovers must, live together, for a while under the same roof , before they decide to get married..!
This way, they will know each other better..
to me, it has just nothing to do with love
especially, if I hear such people say "it's time to get our relation to a higher level".
whaahaahaa!
A 'higher level'. So, relationship is nothing but a game to them?
Well maybe... a game they'll surely be about to lose!
I'd say, today, most people marry for many reasons, but hardly any because of their love:
- they want to show to other people, how much they love
- want to 'push' their relationship, which is about to doze off
- because their religion claims so
- they don't want their child to grow up extramarital
- for any different fiscal reasons
- or maybe to gain your partner's nationality
- etc...
And - to keep in mind - marriages was basically invented by certain religions, wasn't it? Just that God would appreciate their relationship.
And I always thought, god loved us anyway.. hahah
Indeed, our love wouldn't change, just because of marriage.
So, to come back to the main question:
I wouldn't want to marry my true love, so I wouldn't marry a stranger for love either.
But there'd be some good reasons or situations, to marry without love(but only very rarely, T think).
And marrying a stranger wouldn't lead to being married with each other any much longer than with one u knew for years. Because u're really more likely to find out stuff about the stranger, which u don't like, than about the person u've been together with for a long time...
spontanous marriages surely end very much sooner than others.