Get even. Poison the playground. Chapter 3.
....I was mad as hell. The last time I was devastated. This time I was bloody furious.cont....
I managed to get him to leave the car - I needed it. well, I had Multiple Sclerosis, and couldn’t be left stranded & well, his father had a car. Fortunately for me he had filled up the tank to the brim before he cleaned out our joint bank account, intending to have it for his own use!
I convinced him to leave the modem, so I could contact the places I needed to advise.
That was his first mistake.
Now his 2nd really BIG mistake was not using a FB password that I didn't know & telling my sister all his passwords the time he was caught before with her friend.
In my fury, I buckled down, and set about to poison his playground & pee in his paddling pool. I broke the cardinal FB rule & hijacked his FB profile & set about telling all his friends on FB what he had done to his poor trusting wife, in his own words of course, & what a bloody idiot he was.
His third mistake was not remembering how pissed off my sisters were and that now the wagons would be circling! My clever sister cracked the password (on only 2nd try. No imagination!!)of the BBW chat room he was trolling in,
yes, mike, my husband is a chubby chaser!
changed his profile photo to one of myself & him @ my nieces 9th birthday, added some wedding pictures & some fun background stuff.
By then, I had already tracked her down in that chat room , by joining every BBW chat room I could find & sending out the broadcast to find her, while charitably filling everyone on the site about him being married, which was something he had neglected to tell her & them, and that he was having a break with reality.
And as I had assumed, yes, she was in love with him, & yes, he wasn't because it was all in his head, again, and yes, he is a bloody idiot.
5th time caught. 1st time I’ve told him not to come back.
He's also going to have a really hard time going back to those chat rooms again!
Anger makes you strong, but it also makes you stupid. I’m usually such a caring, loving person, who'd considerate of others, and their feelings, but I was a REALLY different person that week!
And I'm a different person now.
Best thing out of all this, I have re-opened contact with the outside world again, and I’m finding it remarkable!
David has come crawling back begging for more time to get his head straight. I’m allowing him to stay in the granny flat, but have let him know I’m getting on with my own life, and that he has to be able to agree to some pretty intensive psychiatric counselling, he is banned from the internet for life, and he will bloody start taking Hornygoat's weed & Viagra if I’m going to allow him back in my bed ever again.
I love the idiot, but I know I deserve better and by God, I’m going to get it!
Comments (19)
I wouldn't have gone through all the trouble that u wen't through for him though. If that happens, it simply means that he doesn't love u anymore and that is sufficient reason to simply let go all ties and start all over again. Afterall, that's the only effective thing one can do.
Been there myself (:
Oh!! Would the gutless be me?
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1) I dont think its possible to "accidently" log into someone elses account.
2) Hacking into someones account is never ok.
3) I think its against forum rules to post a users id
4) in the long run your better off without him.
5) the best revenge is living well. JMO
1. What's a slob?
2. You can't make a coffee or mop a floor - what were you thinking you try for a baby?
I think we all have our cross to bare. If it offers any comfort.
3 years ago when the MS was really bad, I would DEFINITELY agree with you, but I am in remission and have been for 18 months.
I now can make coffee, using travel mugs to prevent spilling!
While sometimes my balance is a little off, I can walk without a cane, and even carry stuff in my arms. Carrying shopping bags is not a good idea, coz it makes me vear off like a drunk woman, but most other things are OK.
Unfortunately its hard to control the biological clock when its be kicked into gear. Until we first discussed the idea again, I had resigned myself to our decision of not having them.
While it may propose more challenging to me than to a fully able bodied person, I still have the love to give, and love can make you climb mountains.
How can you still love him after all that ???
What else, he has to do, to convince you, that he does not love you??
I'm met similar situations, like yours, and the only thing I can say to you is, GET RID OF HIM IMMEDIATELY.
You still love him, because deep inside, you believe, that maybe there is a hope somewhere hidden, that things will change...!!!
Unfortunately , believe me , it won't happen this way.!!!
If you start to believe this , you will see things, in a different way, and from another point of view.
Think with your mind, and not with your heart, as I have read somewhere in this site, when I first joined it..
Very wised said!!!!
Very few things in life cannot be changed.!!!(I heard this also)!
Blogger please explain?
We already have the facilities ast my home.
My husband wouldn't even go through the steps with me because he said it would be too hard to give them back. He wanted his own.
I wont qualify as a foster parent on my own.
Rock and a hard place.
I really can't grasp how you still can consider having a kid with him. He's not fit for marriage and fatherhood.
Did it ever occur to you that you're in love with his potential as a human being and not with what he's today?
A messy guy can mess up a great woman - I've learned to run from those guys cause I chose a sane life
What kind of man confides in his mother in law, who in return offers him her trust? Unless she's a Mrs Robinson type.