am i guilty?
i've been thinking recently...my x-bf break me up, he said "u r beautiful, smart, *bla...bla...bla...* u can find another man...im not even worth for u" and then he choose another girl
months ago, i met a guy, he is my old friend...were met accidentally, and then were date...2 months ago, he went to france..he will study in paris for 2-3 years before he left he said "jess, u r beautiful, smart, bla...blaa...blaa *feels like deja vu* i'll be in france about 3 years...how can u wait for me...blaa blaa...u can find another man who worth more than me"
okay thank u for youur compliment, but if all guys talk to me like that...how can i got a boyfriend??
am i must be stupid, silly, ugly, and nerd to have a boyfriend
Comments (5)
Some simply cant get the courage to talk too a good looking woman in the first place,
Maybe they really felt they were not good enough!!
And with that being said they would have been true to you regardless, in saying you will find someone else!
But Who Knows,...Really!
jack
You are very beautiful, and some men may feel insecure and jealous, so you need a man who is confident in himself and secure in your love, not minding all the competition.
Somehow I also get the vibe that you need to come into your own independence...a strong woman in your own right. Your profile mentions standing under another's light...men like to be adored but they also want a partner. You are only 20 and all relationships are learning experiences...be happy in yourself and you will draw the right people to you.
Than realize that this is probally a pale comparsion to how much is inside, Than You will see that you have so much too offer.
Like you said you are young, There is plenty of time to choose a man thats right!
try and move on, It dont really matter what hapened to the past!!
Regardless why u can only change the future!
Take care.