Mistresses

Where do I put my blame? Could it be the wife? No, I don't think so, she seems the trophy wife type. The girlfriend? *shaking my head* maybe poor thing didn't even or still doesn't know he is married. Now men, one of you have to tell me the trueth.
1. Do I blame men?
2. Are men just stringing them mistresses along for any good reason?
3.what is it that a mistress knows and a wife not? Not to prove one better than the other, but wives and women in general deserves to know.
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Why do you've to put blame? You can stone me now wink I'm single mother AND have been in the past an upscale mistress. My personal way to find out what makes married men be with other women, study men and learning a big deal about myself at the same time. We know what you'll never know - except you're having a huge shift of attitude - for sure to keep "your man"
Angelinbali, please! My blogs have nothing to do with my life. I simply think of issues that concerns dating and relationship. It's in my line of career, as a social work. My life is good! Quite with your stupid attitude towards me and plainly respond to the blog with out dressing me up your sarcastic thoughts.
Maybe the following will help you..!!!

Definition of the PERFECT WOMAN :

1)Good housekeeper.!!!
2)Good mother for my kids.!!!
3)Good cook (sef) in the kitchen.!!!
4)Best friend when I have emotional troubles.!!!
5)Whore in the bed.!!!

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ms..
U dont have to put any blame to any0ne...
All have their own needs and necesities in life, man or women! We're n0t perfect..i became a mistress
0nce in my life..and i choose to correct my mistakes!

@ makis,
Good list friend,
I can say im 5/5....am i good for Him?
What ya think? LoL,LOL,LOL,LOL
ms..
U dont have to put any blame to any0ne...
All have their own needs and necesities in life, man or women!always depend on the situations.. We're n0t perfect..i became a mistress
0nce in my life..and i choose to correct my mistakes!

@ makis,
Good list friend,
I can say im 5/5....am i good for Him?
What ya think? LoL,LOL,LOL,LOL
ms..
U dont have to put any blame to any0ne...
All have their own needs and necesities in life, man or women!always depend on the situations.. We're n0t perfect..i became a mistress
0nce in my life..and i choose to correct my mistakes!

@ makis,
Good list friend,
I can say im 5/5....am i good for Him?
What ya think? LoL,LOL,LOL,LOL
perfect!!!

I just forgot the 6th rule :
so
6) Good Looks (Naomi Cambel, Claudia Shifer etc...)
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Blame~ to think or say that somebody is responsible for something bad. Now with people getting hurt one of them is to take the blame. Why would you want to make it sound like I said something wrong? I have nothing againrt mistresses. If you have done it, fine its part of life. I am getting gat vol with people who comes in here to give me kak!
@ makis,
Now im planning to back off,,
Mybe he will junk me when he saw an alien in pers0n! LoL,LOL
Well, mybe i can use a blindfold for his eyes hahahaha

@ ms. Intellow,
Sometimes words has a deeper meaning than it used to have in the dictionary...
Its ok friend... Ur blog will surely made the others think, were to put their stand! Anyway
I like all ur blogs, it has all its sense!
Tnx
Why would you want to make it sound like I said something wrong

Dear Interllow.
You did not say anything wrong..
It's ok.

what is it that a mistress knows and a wife not?
My post was just a comment for the perfect woman
so Perfect Woman = Wife + Mistress .

Don't get all the posts you read so seriously..
and don't get so ungry...

Next time, I will tell you a joke, to cheer you up. ok ??
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Miss Intellow, I know that your blogs have nothing to do with your own life and that's exactly my point. You keep pointing your finger at others in a very disrespectful way. Well, good luck with your studies to become a social worker. Personally I feel you're missing what a good social worker really is all about. It's mainly about connecting and compassion and not about blame, judgment and knowledge lacking any personal experiences. I'll free you from my appearance in your future blogs and thanks for the good laugh a had while looking closer at your profile name. Love, peace and big miracles to you wave
Thanx for being the 1st to bite the dust! Safe travel!peace
Makis I have a reason to be angry when this people make it personal. If they didn't agree with my opinion, then that wo uld have been more than welcome. Ugly coments on all my blogs, I will not stand for. One should comment about the subject and not their disrespectful thoughts about the blogger. Eg, ...bali has not 1 blog. She doesn't like my blogs but is always there. Why can't she go find blogs she will like? Its all a matter of respect for others. Quite frankly such people are welcome to bite da dust!dancing and hey Makis, I am looking foward that joke, tx.
Hey, ms Shell! Tx a lot for such interesting input on how some people take words for what they really don't stand for.
Hey, ms Shell! Tx a lot for such interesting input on how some people take words for what they really don't stand for.
YOU KNOW SOME MEN KNOWS THAT THE NEW WOMAN IS EVEN BETTER THAN THE OLD1 IN A LOT OF WAYS NOT ONLY TALK ABOUT SEX . HE DON.T WANT THAT SOMEBODY ELSE /BETTER THAN HE IS FINDS HER!! I WAS TALKING ABOUT NR: 2=
Angelinbali, I like you! I may be insansative for letting you go, but with your behavior I am obliged. But stop, please don't go! I am cutting you a deal here
= stay only if:
1. You promise to leave me as an individual out of your comments.
2. If you promise to comment only about the topic of the blog you are in. I am a loving person.
Dear Intellow

I see you tend to quarrel with more than 1 person here. But that's your personal matter altogether.

Your topic just reminds of this cultural aspect of some arab countries where the Sheikh (a rich man) would own a place called Haram with many wives in it. I think a Sheikh would be in a better position to answer that.

The tradition of having mistresses started from the Royal Families around the globe. Specially in the Moughal Empire.
so dear Interllow here it is :

Two friends meet after many years, they were apart.

Friend1->Friend2 : Where have you been all these years ??

Friend2->Friend1 : I was all around the world, looking for the "perfect" woman, to marry her.!!

Friend1->Friend2 : And after all these years of searching, did you find her ??

Friend2->Friend1 : Of course I have found her...!!

Friend1->Friend2 : And why you did not marry her ??

Friend2->Friend1 : Because she was also looking, for the "perfect" man !!!
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ps.
With this joke some people laugh, some people crying and some people frustrated



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i laugh also crying and at lastfrustrated frustrated cheers
This topic is a very complex one .
As to the question ‘what is it that a mistress knows and a wife not? The answer seems to be : In the wife’s world ,the family matters with all its baggage; when it comes to mistress, only the man matters to her . Apparently ,the ‘let go ‘mood is in full play with the mistress ,which may not be the case with the wife.
Of all the commentators , shell0ne may be the most apt person who could authoritatively speak on the subject, as she vaguely put it :“U dont have to put any blame to any0ne...
All have their own needs and necesities in life, man or women!always depend on the situations.. We're n0t perfect..i became a mistress

0nce in my life..and i choose to correct my mistakes!” .
In the Sanskrit play ‘Mricchakatika’ (which was later made into a remarkable Hindi film ‘Utsav’ by Girish Karnad) , the hero Charudatta has a love affair with Vasantasena, a rich courtesan . Not only that his wife is aware of it, once she even playfully tells him that their conjugal bliss is enriched by the experience derived by him from his s*xual rendezvous with the courtesan.

‘Flowers’ , a play by Girish Karnard , is about a Hindu priest caught between his divine love for God, and erotic love torn between courtesan Chandravati and his wife. The priest worships with the same flowers, the Shiva Lingam in the day and the body of Chandravati at night.

For those who would like to know more,some useful links are:


Maxis I just had to, people needed to know that I refuse to have the post irrelevant comments. Great one, you did very good on yours. See when I go to people's blogs I don't comment with reference to the blogger's old post even when they contradicting each other coz I understand that the blogger is just getting to have friend communicate. I belive it is through the blogs that we build friendship. Makis nice one! applause
My two cents, if I may....2. Are men just stringing them mistresses along for any good reason? My answer too this question is: Not at the end, some have even ended in marriage, but from the start yes, it really is all about attraction only, as it progresses it starts to take a turn toward friendship/love, then in the end it gets to the point of, how can I dump her without hurting her, or marry her. just my point of view..
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