WOULD U WANT YOUR SPOUSE TO STILL BE A VIRGIN?????

i wanted to post this on the forums but i dont really know how the forums operate, so i decided to post it here on the blogs, cos am kinda used to it

-IF U ARE NOT YET MARRIED,WOULD U WANT YOUR SPOUSE TO STILL BE A VIRGIN???????????

-IF U ARE MARRIED/DIVORCED, DID U LIKE IT THAT YOUR SPOUSE WAS A VIRGIN B4 U GUYS GOT MARRIED????????

-IF U ARE MARRIED STILL, WOULD U HAVE LOVED IT, IF IT WERE THAT YOUR SPOUSE WAS A VIRGIN B4 U GUYS MET(THATS IF HE/SHE WASNT A VIRGIN B4 U GUYS MARRIED)
Post Comment

Comments (18)

confused confused confused :confused

yawn yawn yawn yawn yawn
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing dunno confused frustrated yay
awsome doh
just a simple question
WHY???????dunno
I've lost my virginity with another virgin - that was a great, sweet experience giggle but now, no thanks, the more experienced the better (talking quality not quantity).
Marrying a virgin would be as dump as buying a car without test driving - MPO
Umeakuka come to think of it, I would love to marry a virgin!
Teach and train him how I like it and not have to go with how he likes it. Atleast for a while kiss
My new brain is telling me not to get sucked into these discussions.

But I must say, angel, I like your analogy. lol

Damn this new brain! I have so much I want to share!
Let me try a G rated comment.
I just think it's important to know your partner's wants and needs before making a life long commitment.
There is no replacement for some wisdom. lol
like angeli,
I lost my virginity with a virgin!
But,,,
Sacksz.... A funny experience for both of us! LoL
Now... I prefer n0t!
what???
u didnt tell me thatrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing lips
..... tightly tasteful ....



Cheers.
@ alf,
Lol....it was juz an embarassing story!
Like, just falling into d floor! Hahahahaha
Both naive for lusts...lol
And u never ask anyway...lol
to shell
honey u misunderstood me
i meant ,u never told me u dont want me as a virginrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing heart wings
oh! Yeah!
Lol
Why dear, r u still virgin at ur age??
Hahahahahaha
Then we'll break!!!! LoL
I dont wana fall into the floor again!!!
;)
No way ! I've had those. They're not as much fun - too nervous, afraid and unadventurous. thumbs down
I prefer a gal with experience and a zest for more. peace
In India , being virgin before marriage ,is still the norm , though premarital sex is not uncommon .
no I would not want to marry a virgin sorry
Even in America, where pre marital sex does not seem to be an issue at all ( Or,is it?, as per what I infer from novels and films , pre marital sex is common in Amerca and western countries)), a movement named ‘Silver Rings’ is slowly catching up , which abhors sex before marriage .
Regarding the Indian situation, a little elaboration would be better.
Chetan Bhagat who is the highest selling English writer in India, has written four novels , all which have fleetingly featured premarital sex between the main charecters. His writings seem to capture the aspirations of the urbane Indian youth. Excerpts from his novel ‘3 Mistakes’(boyfriend is the narrator) :
"I went down , and came up. We looked into each other’s eyes as we became one………’Wow I am an adult and am no longer a virgin, so cool. Thank God,’ she said and giggled"

I have mentioned this in my blog referring to a comment by venusenvy . AngelinBali’s comment also somewhat reflects the attitude of the girl character in the novel. Still , apart from fiction, abstinence till marriage is considered to be respectable in India and even those who do it before marriage would prefer to keep same confidential .
I cannot fully digest the ‘experience’ part of premarital sex. I feel it is more of ‘impatience’. Also the thrill of doing something which is apparently against the norm seems to come into play. Violation of rules always brings in some excitement. But doesn’t the building up of expectations of the ‘first night’ (of marriage) more than compensate for the trivial shortcomings at first consummation ,due to inexperience, as well as the missing of pre marital thrills ? The couple has the entire life before them to experiment, innovate and improve.
Post Comment - Let others know what you think about this Blog.