WOULD U WANT YOUR SPOUSE TO STILL BE A VIRGIN?????

Even in America, where pre marital sex does not seem to be an issue at all ( Or,is it?, as per what I infer from novels and films , pre marital sex is common in Amerca and western countries)), a movement named ‘Silver Rings’ is slowly catching up , which abhors sex before marriage .
Regarding the Indian situation, a little elaboration would be better.
Chetan Bhagat who is the highest selling English writer in India, has written four novels , all which have fleetingly featured premarital sex between the main charecters. His writings seem to capture the aspirations of the urbane Indian youth. Excerpts from his novel ‘3 Mistakes’(boyfriend is the narrator) :
"I went down , and came up. We looked into each other’s eyes as we became one………’Wow I am an adult and am no longer a virgin, so cool. Thank God,’ she said and giggled"

I have mentioned this in my blog referring to a comment by venusenvy . AngelinBali’s comment also somewhat reflects the attitude of the girl character in the novel. Still , apart from fiction, abstinence till marriage is considered to be respectable in India and even those who do it before marriage would prefer to keep same confidential .
I cannot fully digest the ‘experience’ part of premarital sex. I feel it is more of ‘impatience’. Also the thrill of doing something which is apparently against the norm seems to come into play. Violation of rules always brings in some excitement. But doesn’t the building up of expectations of the ‘first night’ (of marriage) more than compensate for the trivial shortcomings at first consummation ,due to inexperience, as well as the missing of pre marital thrills ? The couple has the entire life before them to experiment, innovate and improve.