Are you ready?
In contemplating a relationship!* Being in-between relationships are you looking inward?
* Do you understand what happened with your last relationship?
* Did you accept responsibility for your bad choices or are you still blaming your ex? Are you ready to make better choices?
* Are you still angry?
* Have you buried your anger and feelings or do you understand them and released them?
* Do you really know and understand what kind of relationship you really want?
* Are you expressing yourself as you really are, to the best of your ability?
* Are you honest with others and looking to make someone happy or are you always only thinking of yourself.
* Do you realize that love and happiness comes from within you, not from the outside?
* Have you faced and acknowledged your insecurities and are working on them?
* Have you improved your social communication skills?
Did I miss any?
If your answer to most of these are NO! Then you ARE NOT READY to have a meaningful and long lasting relationship and if you get involved with those that are seeking such a bond with a person, you will be wasting their time and yours and you are being dishonest with them!! TJMHO!
Comments (9)
I answered yes to all of the above, except, ironically I really dont want a relatinship right now.....
I would add: Do you understand that love involves sacrifice, unselfishness, and the desire for the other's happiness and well being as well as your own? That love is a decision, and not just a feeling?
Good for you Milanda, God bless, thanks for posting,
So, true calmheartseeks, thanks for posting.
Thanks for commenting!!
We are all learning something new daily and I am sure most of us, especially myself, are still dealing with that long list I created in some areas or another! I have just recently, I mean just days ago,I came into terms with my anger toward my ex, it's all a work in progress!!