its time
The truth is that by sitting here day in and day out, we cause our own suffering and pain.We are dreaming, hoping, longing for that someone special. i have spent most of this day clicking from one part or another checking to see if i have any mail, checking to see who has view my profile,who liked my photo's.
There is no one out there for me and yet each day i search clinging to the hope that today is the day, and end up feeling worse than before.
Now please do not get me wrong, there are some really nice people in here and i am sure that in time there will be friendships made.
It has been said (by someone) that before you can love someone, you must first love yourself.
The dust on this shelf is so very thick and iv'e been on it for over seven years.
In that time i have changed and i am set in my ways and have little to offer anyone.
It is time to look inward for my needs (simple as they maybe) and they will be needs no more.
Two years ago i started on a path and for sometime now i have been sitting on the edge waiting for something or someone to come along, it is time to start back on the path.
So to you all i wish you luck
May you have happiness and the causes of happiness
May you be free from suffering and the causes of suffering
Comments (2)
As my brother once said to me, "If you want something in life, you have to take it. It wont come to you."
I bet there is someone just perfect for you doing the same thing waiting for you to come along and you are both sitting around waiting for the other person. I think many people wish that someone would just come up and ask them out.
If you went to a social event and asked someone out, I bet you would find someone you liked inside a week, or maybe the same day.
Or maybe in your mind you want a relationship, but you don't really want one.
being on my own is the best path for me to take.
oh yes there are times when i feel i need/want a hug (i would be lying) if i said i never needed/wanted that.
but do i need the hug or do want the hug????
it is about attachment, being attached that is the bad bit.
if a hug comes my way maybe i will take it and enjoy it.
so as far as going out looking, that will not happen.
May you have happiness and the causes of happiness
May you be free from suffering and the causes of suffering
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