I've learned....
that no matter how real a person appears to be online, you really ought to take time to check out his/her background. the one thing I never like is someone who says he doesn't smoke just cos many women wouldn't bother with them if they ticked the smokes list. these chronic online liars put up a facade that meets your every whim just so they get to you.
the worst experience I've had is to come all the way to the states from my country (philippines) just to find out that the man I thought who would be 'the one' turns out to be the biggest looser on the planet. it's too embarassing to list down the things I should have asked from the start even. how does a person inquire about one's psychological incapacity? or how does one go about asking if he has ED? PTSD? Schizo or worse..is on his last days on earth with CANCER?
so when you meet someone online, don't be afraid to ask ask ask! and take the time to get to know each other as thoroughly as you can.
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If ya take your time and think outside the square you will see things much more clearly.