WHEN UNCONDITIONAL LOVE BECOMES CONDITIONAL

We run at love the first time without experience, with open hearts, and with open legs, this is what makes it fun. We think that it will last forever. Our mate consumes our every wanting thought and for a moment our ego is sufficed. Here in lies the problem, because when this passion ends we experience a pain we never knew existed , and thats when we learn... I WILL NEVER DO THIS AGAIN!!!! But eventually the pain subsides and a nice smile or gentle comment lures us into loves embrace again, and again, and again. Thus is life, but with each new time our love is lessened by experience, and eventually we are nearly incapable of feeling the love we felt the first and maybe even the second time altogether. WHY???? you can say, "because we have learned," or you can call it, "maturity," but the sad truth is we are damaged goods and we don't trust love anymore. THAT IS WHEN LOVE BECOMES CONDITIONAL.