why are guys so shy on this ...

and the second move is when you throw us out, leave us think about it for another 40 years, we will get back to ye.

I make a move, WHEN I find someone appropriate.

not me...gemeh22

Believe me I have tried and I seem to be getting nowhere fast.

hahahahaha, One of you said something really WISE.

That´s the true. Most people think that the man earns the woman`s love with gifts, attention, and other things, but really it is the woman who always chooses the man.

In my case it has always been like this. And even once I tried with a girl, and she rejected me, but after months, she chose me, and then I could attack!

I am sure that most men after years of learning reach this conclusion.

WOMEN, you should at least do an effort if you want to obtain something!!!!

The problem is not that we don't make the first move, but just the 95% of the time, our first moves here are ignored and not even answered with a simple 'hi, thanks for your mail/flower'.

What makes it worse is that as already shown in many other threads, most women think such behaviour is ok.

Well i sent u a mail but u never answered ..........

i didnt get any mail from you

Im not a liar i did send u a mail and u read it. Its fair enough if u wernt interested but dont make me out to be a liar on here. I looked at my outbox and the mail is there and u read it.