how do you deal with the truth in ur relationship
Do you prefer knowing the truth and all that follows,even if it is a painful truth ,that will only burnt your anger and drained your strength from hurtfull emotions?
And then, you probably talk about it or not talk about it, or make a decision ... It depends ....
Or, do yo prefer not knowing? Not trying to found out,
pretended like nothing happen and just carry on with your life, for what you did not know can not hurt you.
And hoping that everything will come back to normal ...
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Say someone has lied to you and then confessed to lying. First the anger at being lied to comes up, but upon looking deeper, there is a reason such a lie would cause so much emotionality. That is where the healing is.
I love a saying, "lean into the sharp edges". Life is always always teaching us so that we can grow and become more aware of the divine creatures we really are.
in my opinion the most important on a relationship ,of any kind ,is trusting each other.by not telling the truth or avoiding even talking about it ,u r finally with a broken trust .which sooner or later ,will bring u to a great crisis .while it was better to face the truth and deal with the problem ,in the right time and size.
especially if u love soneone u have to be totally sincere with him-her,on everything.lies or half trues r so confusing and misleading.JMO.
we ought to ourselves ,seaking for the truth.
when we find it we have to deal with it no matter how much it stincks ,or how much is not what we expected to be.just see and act under ur feelings ab the other.love can heal everything.
Very strong and
courageous people. Well done .
i say, if you have to question your partner then maybe its time to move on.
knowing the truth comes from experiencing it with your own eyes, its not easy believing everything we are told, its a choice.