Should I give up or not?
for the past 10 years I've been waiting for someone to give me the chance to show who I really am without my actual problems of life that I can start a new life but with that person in it.What I want to know is should I give up or not because from what i've seen no one is interested in me i don't even know why and no one tells me what i'm doing wrong.
I'd like to get some feed back and don't say anything about my profile cause I've tried everything and nothing seems to grabs anyones attention. so Thats why i'm writing this blog to find out who i can turn to for help and some advise also anyone who would like to be a friend and get to know me because i am a nice guy just very shy and quiet
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really, I am afaraid this business is solely up to ya.
enjoy your stay!
bye.
hmm, can i ask did u wait 4the person u said ? if u thk its deserve then it deserve , but if 4u , is rly waste of ur time, then be wise, u kno there also lots of nice sumone there,
aha,nice and shy, wow, i like it, lol. btw, nice 2meet u here
For a start I would write a new profile, speaking straight from your heart, letting people know who you are, what your interests are and who you're looking for.... nobody knows you like you know yourself.
I would say to you, never give up, there is someone for everyone, and if you don't find them on here, you will find someone somewhere, and sometime!
I'm sure you're a very nice guy, you just need to show more confidence in yourself, then others will feel it too.
All the best!!
Loui
The person you are, without your actual problems of life... is who you wish you were.
The person you are with your actual problems of life... is who you actually are.
If I were you, I'd give up on hoping my problems of life would go away; it'll never happen.
What doesn't kill us, makes us stronger.
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Methinks.... nothing.
My suggestion is to forget about this feeling sorry for yourself BS and get out there and get noticed. Getting a job sort of comes to mind. And there's no excuse for an able bodied 26 year old to be long term unemployed in this country.
If ya can't work, do a course.... or protest about something. Just get out there and meet people and get some confidence.
You'll be suprised what a difference it will make.
Life isn't about sitting around waiting for the love of your life to show up by a miracle in your lap. Life is about living it to the fullest, jumping in head first, making mistakes, learning and laughing.
Playing the waiting game and feeling like nobody cares or listens just makes you feel sorry for yourself. Only YOU can make yourself happy, someone in your life just enhances the happiness.
I am sure you have friends that you can share your life with..
I'm sure these word only for someone who really doesn't understand what they live for , everybody always get a chance in their live even if the worse things happened .
You're still young men to said like that ..trying to quit from your situation now by joining to the forum , read any motivation book or listening some nice word from good motivator it will be help you to get out from same world that you have now.
You have been given great advise from all above...
Billy has told you straight down the line what you got to do...
You hafto get out there and create a life,it wont come to you...
Being shy is something you hafto deal with,you not going to break out by hanging washing or washing dishes...
When you are asking a girl out thinck carefully where you going.
A girl will be more comfortable if other couples are involved...
Have a back up plan always,as soon as she says no to night club
then be ready to say something like bunch of us is heading down the beach tomorrow for some fun are you interested...
And even if it's not planed don't worry about it get it organised...
And don't worry about rejection its just a bloody word...
so hopefully one more try will get things moving.
once again thank you all