Confused

Why would you possibly go down a road of misery...

You obviously not ready to commit...

Just tell him...stretch the engagement longer...till you are sure.

Many times in our lives we should step away from a bad company and being alone. If you think you went all the way and you tried everything for your sake and all the questions have been answered and there's nothing more left to do...walk away from things that aren't good and comfortable. No one should suffer. Neither you ! Find all you need in your mind, if you take a time !

Respect,
Flo

PS Good morning carobnjak3 !

is you sure he is love you too. this is so importance poin should be make sure it if not should be not waste ur time with him?

Dont be afraid of change....you may loose something good, but you may gain something better!!!

You seem very greedy, but you can't have your cake and eat it too.. Either let go of the current to get a new one if you want some fun, or cherish the moments you're with him. I think if you do love him so much, you wouldn't be unsure whether you are happy with him or not. Listen to your heart, make up your mind, the choice is in your hands.

What you feel it's not uncommon ,quite the opposite.We humans tend to want it all ,we want freedom but like commitment,eat a lot and being thin,earn packs of money and have free time.
Unfortunately life is about making choices, set priorities and learn how to reconcile the opposites.And then cash in on or pay the price...

You're obviously not ready right now for a commitment even though you love him... speak to him honestly, perhaps he will understand and give you more time, if you're meant to be together, he'll be there for you! Never rush into something if you have doubts!

there is nothing better in life to spend the the best time og your life inlove. if u love him thats ok but if u are inlove then thats better. which 1 are u ? if u just love him then no. u have to sleep breath and adore your man as he should also u. being inlove should be the only resion. when u make love he should rock your world. the 2 together is an afrodesiack lol. if u dont have it then maybe u better of not getting married as u will heert him , yourself and your child down the track

You are only 20 years old and just the fact that you are talking to men on a dating site wanting their attention and answers shows you are not ready for marriage.

you are doing the guy a disservice and the mature thing to do is to just say you want to date.

You love the benefits of being with a good person but you hate to have to do anything for it. Classic thing for someone your age.

You are still at the age of being way too selfish and into yourself.

Until you mature and realize that it's just as important what you give to someone than what you get, then you are not ready.

He deserves to have someone mature enough and into him enough to enjoy caring about him and giving to him. He deserves better and you need to go out and go sleep around and have fun. You are not ready to be married. He is

you are good-looking i have to admit. but you are too young. 20. i am 24 and this age is considered to be old in the east and this age is considered to be an age when i need to get married by the easters. but i still do not want to be trapped by marriage... how free to be single! though others all want to scare me to the wall of marriage.

Too early to be engaged.You still need your freedom,you need to enjoy your life.Normaly a good age for a woman to get married is 27.Go & have fun & if both love each other then both should understand & know that both need your freedom.If you're not sure about something then don't do it ,otherwise you'll feel sorry.Anyway take care & stay beautiful like you're always.

At 20 you have not lived, nor have you done the things all 20 year old are doing, like dating, partying, being crazy, and loving life to the fullest.
You have a lifetime ahead of you to get married, and the fact that you questioning your relationship, should be enough to send warning bells out. You cannot possibly love him, as much as you think you do, if you are unsure that it is enough to sustain your relationship

My advice to you would, break off your engagement and be honest with your fiancee. If your relationship is based on trust, honesty and integrity he will understand, and perhaps even allow you the space to find out what it is you really want. Dont hand onto him, from fear that you wont find better, as that would be selfish.

Good luck and I hope you make the right choice

R

Funny! How funny are modern men!

Correction! How funny modern men are!

Hi Confused,read 1 corth 13 and you will get a better idea as to what your next step should be.

Slewi, if you're not sure it's a sign. What's wrong with your fiance? Or is it just you being afraid of commitment? I think it's the latter... You're very young, maybe you should wait with marriage. But sooner or later responsibility comes. Marriage is not only about being careless and having fun together all the time. It's a partnership that will face many crucial tests and unless it's based on respect, attraction and friendship it's doomed to fail those.