Dating Site Dilemma

You are happily chatting to someone. Getting on well. Then another person just appears. A bit Sweetie shop shallow but hard to resist contacting them?
Do you blank them out and wonder or talk and risk what is positive?
If you are a One Woman Man this gets very complicated!
Is it cheating to chat?
Especially if not sure of the lady you seem to already have?
Can too much choice be a curse?
Opinions welcome.
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There must be a reason you are being tempted away from your current lady. Go with your heart I would say, time for making mistakes is not on our side .... beer
What would be the objective in contacting the other person???

An innocent chat?? then go for it

More?? then be honest with yourself and those you are chatting too

conversing
Are there "many women men"?conversing
Many of the men I meet on this site want get too involved too early without really getting to know the other person. They appear desperate and for me that's quite a turnoff so I may lose interest. I don't think either party should be limited to who they are chatting with if there is no contact or committment. After all we're all here to find someone so why would you want to limit your choices right off the bat? If the relationship continues and progresses then why would you want stay on the site?
Mike ,

I was going to ask the same question fgs:

where are all many men women that I meet every day at pubs ,office

and clubs etc etc..?

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Chatting is not dating. Why not chat with someone that interests you? The worse that can happen is that you may find a new friend.
Ok, so I don't want to say too much or I might get myself into trouble, but look at it this way: Freedom is a great priviledge, but too much freedom is dangerous. That's how the whole choice-thing feels for me right now.
Kaybee, you are so right! I want to get to know and chat with guys so I don't rush into anything. Several of these guys are acting like I belong to them already though. Ahhhhh!
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