Is It wrong to date a pregnant girl?
Is It really a big deal to be with a girl that's pregnant or that has her kid already?
...I mean yea sure you guys don't want to deal with the baby daddy drama and things like that but would it make a difference if the baby daddy was in the picture...
Just got up and left just like that? 
and shes all alone dealing with this pregnancy by herself dealing with everything by herself....will that make a difference?
I talked to a lot of guys about this
and they stick to there answer"I'M NOT TAKING CARE OF NO MAN CHILD!!!"
my thing is i think it has something to do with pride 
yep that's right pride...For some reason you men let your pride interfere with things regardless.no matter what it is, a spoon can fall on the floor and your pride wont let you pick it up...But i want to know why is it such a big deal to be with a women that either with child or have child?
Any who i will really like to hear what you guys reason are and ladies i will like to hear your stories' to if there are any...Come on guys just open your hearts a little
This is betty boo and im signing out\
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thats what i taught but I was not positive!
Thanks, I just wanted to hear your opinion just in case i am in the situation with a woman!
JAIPlay212,
I never met to disrespect u either!
But it is something I want to know about!
First things first,we need to find to find a woman first (each one-i mean lol)
and then if we get as far as that,we come with another thread
Angie,
You made me
Well, to answer your question, I don't think it's ego at all, in fact I think it's the drama that comes with it, the instant fatherhood and all that it brings, the overall responsibility that is required, the father in picture kind of stuff as well. I think a lot of men are not willing to accept this level of commitment so soon, or so I believe.
Joseph.
I concur!
i have no problem with i...i ask fro comment and help and your doing a great job with it..see i only know what the books allow to know but if someone experience these things personally then by all mean answer away because im also learning new things as we go along...
A woman left by the father during pregnancy should rather focus on herself and the child than forming a new relationship. I doubt that any relationship starting off during pregn. and after a break up with the father have anything to do with love but purely with need. Same goes for mothers of newborn and toddlers. The (possible) thrill of the new relationsh is taking to much time and energie away from the child. I've experienced this myself and this is why I've this personal opinion about it. I've concsiously not dated for a long time to be fully available for my son during the years he needed me most. A newborn doesn't always just bring roses and sunshine into a relationsship - it can be a real test. JMPO
well lets say a guy does come in a girl life then find out she pregnant do you think she should still not be with him and just wrry bout her and her baby? or do you think she should give it a try?
If you were not straight in the beginning every guy will not trust what you say and walk away!!
If indeed I had to find out any other way than you saying so!
JMO
Of the top of my head i would consider what angel said about the feelings...
I would say (and not sure)...It would have to be considered that if u got hurt emotionally how would it affect your child...
Again Im not sure either, just trying to help!
Be strong , Take care of yourself which in turn will take care of your child!
take care!
i say if a lady was left alone with a baby too bad for you. how many times has it happened to others to allow yourself in that position are you so hungry for meat inside you, well take what you get.