why is it we try hard to be in a relastionshi

relationships sometimes fail, been there, given so much and I know he gave too to make the relationship work but its just not working anymore...

just stop asking questions why this person never made it with you right now rather be happy that ur no longer in that relationship with someone who didnt give value to all the things u did.

u deserve someone better, just hang in there, she's on the way to you.




good luck in ur search

take it easy then won't be hard

thank you every one i love the comments and i respect you all your all right what you say ? maybe i could just leve it for wile and then phone her friend as i did tell her on the phone the othere day i am moving on as well cos i pay for her tickets to come over and i was engaged to marry and cos she changed mind in the larst month to say i can be with you cos god says we not good together and it must been worrie or the money and she say she didnt want to know as she not love me but not get the truth ? but in the end i said i found some one eles to take her place to come to england insted as she realy was geting bit to hurt full at me as i pay lot out to her and for wedding and phone bill and going to indoniesa to meet her and her pLAN TICKET TO ???? and still feels that she got me still and won as i realy worked hard for her .... but she was happy for me that found someone eles or is she i dont but she realy was the love of my life

Hello Dear Jed!

Perhapes you try too hard????....No one wants a door mat!

dont push urself too hard..i know how it feels to be in ur shoe...but believe me..someday u'll get over with it...and who knows what tomorrow will bring...someone better may come along..u will never know whats around the corner...

thank you every one im very grateful for your comments .... best wishes for every one !

i think the love of your life should be by your side, if not then it was not meant to be... more or less, is just a need of humans to be in love, to fell loved, cared and wanted. nothing is going to change that hole inside of you until you find the right girl. and plus, for a relationshipp the way i see it, gotta be both ways, if you put too much in that person, when its over, you loose. unfortunately it is that way. if you are with someone else, open your eyes wide and see all the little details she has, sometimes money is not everything. you gotta feel the love coming in as well as you give it out.

i think the love of your life should be by your side, if not then it was not meant to be... more or less, is just a need of humans to be in love, to fell loved, cared and wanted. nothing is going to change that hole inside of you until you find the right girl. and plus, for a relationshipp the way i see it, gotta be both ways, if you put too much in that person, when its over, you loose. unfortunately it is that way. if you are with someone else, open your eyes wide and see all the little details she has, sometimes money is not everything. you gotta feel the love coming in as well as you give it out.